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54 Popular Culture Review Table 1 - Sexual Partnerships Number of WHM BHM Homosexual (N=574) (N = ll Partners Ever 0 1 1 0% 0 9 10: 2 3-4 5-9 10-14 15-24 25-49 50-99 100-249 250-499 500-999 11; 1000 or m ore 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Demographics B H M -W H M 1 2 3 3 8 .09 .09 9 15 17 15 28 .11 0% 0 2 4 5 6 6 18 15 11 14 19 WHF (N=227) BHF (N=64) 3% 9 15 31 16 10 8 5 1 1 0 0 5% 5 14 30 9 16 11 8 2 2 0 0 Demographics .04 BHF - WHF .05 Pilot Study (N=458) 1% 3 4 5 8 12 20 13 14 20 .17 Aside from the fact that in order to be properly understood within the parameters of the study, this table needs to be cross-referenced with the other 119 charts, tables, and graphs in the appendices of their book, Dr. Dobson seems interested only in gay men. The “White Homosexual Female” (WHF) and “Black Homosexual Female” (BHF) results contradict his assertion and, according to current statistics reviewed by Gary Gates (a demographer at the Urban Institute in Washington, D.C., and coauthor of The Gay and Lesbian Atlas), two-thirds of the same-sex couples who applied for marriage licenses in Massachusetts on May 17—the first day gay and lesbian couples could legally be issued marriage licenses in this country—were women. This is not surprising since 43% of lesbians are “coupled” at any one time. Other pertinent demographics from May 17 in Massachusetts include: •50% of the same-sex couples who applied for marriage licenses had been together for at least a decade; •The most predominant age group was 40 to 49 years-old (the median age was 43); •40% of those female couples said they had children in their households. According to the Adoption Family Center, there are an estimated 6 to 14 million children who have a gay or lesbian parent, and between 8 and 10 million children who are being reared in gay and lesbian households. Dobson was right. These children will suffer the most if their parents are prohibited from giving them the obvious and the subtle benefits legal marriag e confers. And what about children who fmd themselves inexorably drawn to the same sex? Currently these young people face a most difficult road, but: