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World Mental Health Day: Moving beyond slogans to equip friends in trades
By
Chris Coetzee, OHSS Consulting
Every year on October 10, corporate feeds and email inboxes fill up with pastel infographics, generic quotes and corporate wellness invites.
If you spend your days on site, in a workshop, or pulling long shifts with a toolbelt strapped to your waist, those polished messages usually land flat. They feel completely detached from the dust, the sweat, the high-pressure deadlines, and the brutal reality of running on fumes.
World Mental Health Day was created to break the silence. Yet for people working in technical trades, standard mental health talk often feels like empty fluff. We are told to open up, but nobody hands us a practical toolkit for what to do when the pressure becomes overwhelming.
It is time to take a hard stand for the people on site. It is time to lean into F. I. T.( Friends in Trades).
The high cost of the‘ suck it up’ culture In trade industries, silence has been treated as strength for generations. You swallow the pressure, you mask the pain with another energy drink or a drink after work, and you keep moving because the job needs to get done.
The numbers tell a serious story. Across South Africa and around the globe, tradespeople and construction workers face some of the highest suicide and depression rates of any sector. Heavy physical toll, financial stress, long hours away from family, and a deeply ingrained culture of stoicism create a dangerous environment.
Calling someone soft for admitting they are struggling is an outdated mindset that actively harms the people we work alongside. True strength is not holding up a cracking wall until it collapses on you and everyone around you. True strength is recognising the load is too heavy, putting down the weight for a moment, and calling in backup.
Friends in Trades: Practical tools for the site We do not need more inspirational posters in the site office. We need ground-level mechanics for the human mind. Just like you would never send an apprentice onto a dangerous job without safety gear, a hard hat and the right tools, we cannot expect people to navigate severe stress, trauma or anxiety without a clear protocol.
Through F. I. T.( Friends in Trades), we translate mental health into realworld action on the job:
The direct script over the awkward chat Telling a coworker you are worried about them can feel awkward when standing in a busy workshop. Strip away the uncertainty and use clear, direct language: " Hey, I ' ve noticed you ' ve been carrying a heavy load lately and seem a bit off. I ' m not here to pry or fix it, but I ' m in your corner if you need to vent. Zero judgment."
Parallel connection People rarely open up sitting face to face across a table staring into each other ' s eyes. Real conversations happen side by side. Grab a coffee, walk to the bakkie, or work on packing the tools together. Side by side connection removes intense pressure and lets someone speak without feeling put on the spot.
The physical override( 4-5-6 Reset) When panic or anger hits on site, your nervous system enters fightor-flight. You cannot think your way out of a physical spike. You have to mechanically lower your heart rate. Inhale through your nose for 4 seconds, hold for 5 seconds, and blow slowly out through your mouth for 6 seconds. Three rounds forces your nervous system to settle so you can make clear decisions under pressure.
Taking a stand together This World Mental Health Day, let us commit to doing things differently. If you are struggling right now, feeling completely buried under financial strain, relationship breakdown, or dark thoughts, hear this clearly: You are not a failure, you are not a burden, and your crew needs you here. Reaching out for support is not breaking down. It is performing necessary maintenance on an engine that has been running too hard for too long.
If you see a friend on site who has gone quiet, grown unusually short tempered, or started checking out, step up. Do not wait for them to ask for help, because they probably will not. Reach out, hold space and stand beside them.
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