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education shower, or anything else which helps re-energise them after a long day at school. Then they’re ready to sit down and plan exactly how they’re going to tackle their workload. Try out one of these preparation tools, or mix and match to find what works for you: • Time-tabling Kids are familiar with timetables from school, and giving them a visual representation of how their time at home is spent will help them follow a plan. Being able to see a clear and colourful plan for the evening is especially good for kids with attention issues, who can otherwise feel lost in a sea of worksheets. • Wheel of homework Create a re-usable spinner with segments on which you write every piece of homework for the evening. Writing out the tasks is great preparation work. Spin the wheel to bring some fun to the activity, and as you wipe off each task that’s completed, your kid will feel like they’re making great progress. • Time-boxing You might also know this as the Pomodoro Technique. It’s a way of setting up focused time blocks with designated breaks in between. You can even use this with very little ones, who can typically focus for about the same number of minutes as their age (i.e. a five year old can focus for five minutes). Break tasks into small chunks which fit into the time boxes you’ve set up and you should be able to get the to-do list ticked off efficiently! Getting down to work Again, this is a chance to show your child that homework is worth giving their best efforts to. Set up a specific environment in which they complete their work each day, such as a cleared kitchen table. Minimise distractions from the task by making sure that your child prepares everything they need before starting, such as a sharp pencil, a glass of water, or a study music playlist. Then choose from the following techniques to keep the homework progressing smoothly: • Set up a study group Invite a few friends to join your kid while they do their homework. A hard-working peer can be a far better modifier of behaviour than a nagging parent ever can! • Create a fun-time bank Set up a fun-time bank that your child can allocate to something they enjoy, such as playing video games or riding their bike. Then, if they finish their homework earlier than planned, they get the free time to enjoy that evening plus the same amount of time added to their fun-time bank. Bundling up all that time and forming a big block at the weekend creates a much clearer memory than little fragments of time during the week. If homework is dragging on a Wednesday night, a reminder of how much fun-time you had in the park last Saturday provides great incentive to knuckle down and get the same this week. • Stickers Hard work is its own reward, but stickers look a lot cooler on a wall chart! Agree on the rules for earning stickers with your kid – maybe the work has to be done without any distraction, or within a set time-goal, or perhaps one is earned for every night that it all gets done without argument. Prizes for stickers can be school- related, so your kid earns new copies of Geronimo Stilton or a coveted Smiggle pencil-case, or they could be a way to earn computer game time – whatever works best for your child. Show, Don’t Tell If you’ve ever taken a writing class, you’ll be familiar with the instruction: show, don’t tell. The final tip for parents to help their kids become better at homework is to do just that. Show them, don’t tell them, that homework is something worth doing well. Kids don’t know the realities of grown-up work, so when they see you sending emails and making calls in the evening, it doesn’t really look like work to them. If you can save some homework-like tasks to do in front of your kids – sales reports or legal briefs will do the trick – you’ll be able to set a great example when they see you getting this done. You might even choose to learn something completely new! The biggest inspiration on my work habits growing up was my dad. While I was in primary school, he studied for a master’s degree. In high school, my worst subject was German, and my dad studied the subject at night school to show me that hard work was all it took. After that, he also did a GCSE in ceramics and a course in Tai Chi. Seeing him take his studies seriously had far more impact on me than any ideas I had of what he did at work. Showing your kids what good study habits look like is a fantastic gift to give them, and even better, you get to learn something for yourself too! Willow Hewitt is the Head of English at the Tsim Sha Tsui branch of i-Learner Education Centre She has been teaching in Hong Kong for several years, and has a highly experienced international teaching team who love to share their knowledge and resources with parents whenever they can. www.i-learner.edu.hk. Winter 2018 51