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maternity reason for hiring a live-in pui yuet for two months with both her babies was: “To get enough rest myself, after the birth, so that I could recover in time to get back to work, and to ensure my newborns received experienced care.” A confinement lady is expected to train new mums in babycare and to train helpers where necessary too. Staying inside the house for a full 28 days is not always practical and like many modern mums, Cynthia tweaked the advice slightly. “I just don’t see the scientific evidence for total confinement, apart from not getting sick. I think the key is not to over-exhaust the new mom. For me, going out to run some errands and get some fresh air, whilst avoiding crowds was ok.” Yuen Wai Chang, mother to a four- year-old daughter and eight-year-old son, hired a daytime pui yuet when her second baby was born. “I wanted a person who was knowledgeable about the types of foods that would heal the post-partum body,” she explains. Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM) teaches that the loss of blood, and the changes that occur in a woman’s body during the birth process, result in a body that is damaged and requires urgent replenishment. If left untreated, the damage caused by the birth can result in health problems later in life. Pui yuets are trained in preparing foods and herbal medicines that will assist with healing, strengthening, and rebalancing the body’s qi. “Dried longan, red dates and goji berries are usually made into a tea for replenishing blood and nourishment; Fish maw and chicken soup for the collagen; Chicken or lean pork double-boiled with Chinese herbs for nourishing the body; Papaya and peanut soups are good for milk production, ” Yuen Wai explains. “Pig trotters in black vinegar is another staple, if not favourite, of confinement ladies which I quite enjoyed.” For those without an experienced confinement cook in the home, food delivery services are another option – delivering traditionally prepared meals and tonics 30 www.playtimes.com.hk it’s important to have an honest discussion about what she will and will not do for you and the baby, and the hours/days she will be working.