Playtimes HK Magazine February 2018 Issue | Page 39

features the baby know that these needs will be met lays the foundation for future higher functioning and learning to take place. The most pertinent questions to an infant’s developing brain are questions such as “Am I safe?”, “Am I lovable?”, “Can I depend on help when I need it?”. Naturally these connections to safety and inner security are built through their early relationships with their main caregivers. When these relationships are sensitive and consistent, that special loved one can be the safe base for the baby to go explore the world! When babies play, repeatedly practise trial and error, and discover new things, they are building thousands of new brain connections. It is estimated that approximately one million brain connections (or synapses) per second are formed for the first 1001 days of life. In fact, babies are much faster at making new brain connections than adults. By the time a child is two- years-old, he or she will have double the amount of brain connections as an adult. After that the brain undergoes “pruning” of the weaker connections. The connections that are repeated the most are strongest and will survive. So the first few years are a key window for setting up a brain with lots of positive connections that can last a lifetime. So how can you build this positive foundation for your baby? 1. Tune in your radio Try to tune into your infant’s signals and respond sensitively. If they could talk, what might they be telling you about how they feel? You can show them you know how they feel with a sensitive action, some words, or even a facial expression. February 2018 37