And when we choose to simply play Romance instead of taking the time to build a relationship with the PEOPLE we encounter, we miss out on the reward of possibly making a new friend. Now, I’m no fool, I know that today we have many Lurkers that are simply here to Exploit as many people as they possibly can, but that’s even more reason to set aside this mentality of Instant Gratification, and take the time to get to know the Person that you are interested in. Spend Time with them, especially around their friends, a person is more likely to be themselves around people that they are familiar with. Ask questions that are relevant to the characteristics you are looking for in a person. Ask the Same Question multiple times, if a person is playing games with you then more than likely their answers may deviate at some point because they have forgotten what the told you previously.
One of the Best things to remember when dealing with People especially if looking for companions is, Instant Gratification only leads to Heart ache, because there is no substance to the relationship you have created, Also Keep in mind that the things you require in a person you should exhibit yourself because that other person is probably expecting some of the same things you are. Best thing to remember is that Patience is Key, and instant gratification isn’t always best ….. so slow Down get to know them before you get to KNOW THEM !!! …….
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