I have been in quite a few relationships in IMVU. I'm sure a lot of us have. We've been searching for someone to share our fantasy life. Some have been successful, and some not so. This last one was one like I have never experienced. While we ourselves didn't have any issues the hidden issues lied with his family. Below are some suggestions that may help someone else in their search. As for me I think I'm done. Had enough, but my focus now is on helping others if i can. My suggestion to anyone now
is, Make sure he has your best interest in mind as well. Some people let their family dictate what they can do and who they see...Trust me you don't want a man like that. Although you don't want to come between their relationship, you do want him to have a backbone strong enough to let them know when they are wrong .
Do Not Let Them Determine Your Love Life
What happens when a man has met a woman who really makes him happy but his grown ass kids hate her for no reason? If a man is not strong in his own self he stands to lose it all in this situation... the respect of his kids and the loss of a love. Although men do not like being in the middle, it is an opportunity for them to set their way and establish who they are and what their role is with all involved.
5 Places of Understanding:
1. Displacement of Feelings: Unless the man can find a VALID reason for his adult kids disdain for the woman he is in love with, he should not allow them to control his right to have a woman in his life.