Pinpoints Spring 2019 | Page 13

E rin has played an extraordinary role in the deep goodness of the Baldecchi years. She is, of course, loving wife of Chuck, and proud mom of Bella ’17, Alex ’19, and Cade ’21. She is so many other things to so many other people in the TLS community – dear friend, trusted confidant, respected role model, encouraging teacher, thoughtful mentor, gracious hostess, and the list goes on. As one former teacher says, “Erin has the gift of hospitality, and she uses it.” Erin and Chuck began the tradition of entertaining faculty and staff – at their home on Ashland Avenue at first, and then at Scarlet Gate. Erin says, “We got the idea a long time ago from Billy Peebles (former Asheville Head of School), and that was the way I got to know the faculty, since I wasn’t there every day.” She smiles as she confesses, “I wasn’t much of a cook at that point.” Giving more background, Erin admits, “We wanted to have a chance to serve the faculty. They spend their days giving so much in the classroom. We invited six people at a time, since that’s all our dining room table on Ashland Avenue would seat. We didn’t include spouses because we couldn’t hold that many people. The first eight years, we had every faculty and staff member every year, and it was especially fun since we always mixed up departments. We all got to know each other in a different way, more casually, outside the school day. I planned the menu and did the cooking, and we did it every other week or so, usually beginning in October.” Indeed, it often seems Scarlet Gate has a revolving door, though James Lane Allen could never have imagined such at his boyhood home. Throughout the years, Erin and Chuck have made their old Kentucky home the warm gathering place for countless Lexington School reunions, Fall Festivals, Holiday Homecomings, Board gatherings, receptions, commencements, breakfasts, luncheons, dinners, picnics, meetings, birthday parties for Ms. A and others, celebrations, and Celebrations, even with bottles of whiskey buried strategically throughout the yard to ensure perfect weather. At every instance, Erin has been more than welcoming, even when one guest had so much fun that a friend had to put a hand on both shoulders, maintain steadfast eye contact, and clearly explain, “The party is over. The Baldecchis have to go to bed.” Thank you, Erin, for bringing your kind sparkle to Scarlet Gate. We have all benefitted. Thank you, Erin, for bringing your kind sparkle to Scarlet Gate. We have all benefitted. 11