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December 16 - 31, 2018 OPINION PHILIPPINE ASIAN NEWS TODAY  Rey Fortaleza - Publisher Carlito Pablo - Editorial Consultant Rosette Correa - Senior Editor Jun Cordero - Associate Editor Writers - Crisanta Sampang ; Columnists - Geoff Meggs, Ben Berto, Editha Corrales, Mon Datol, Fr. Jerry Orbos SVD, DeeDee Sytangco, Alan Samuel, Erie Maestro, Sandee M. Ed Malay, Jayne Anastacio, JJAtencio and Willie J. Uy (Manila Bureau Chief) Alvin Barrera / Mon Correa - Graphics and Layout ; Rolly Fortaleza - Graphics Design JoelCastro - Website; Julian Fortaleza - Sports Editor; Ricardo Fortaleza- Sports Photography Editor: Dean Guzman; Photograhers- Charles De Jesus/ Christian Cunanan Reyfort Publishing & Entertainment Office Add: 9955 -149th Street, Surrey, B.C. V3R 7N2 Email: [email protected] Website: www.philippineasiannewstoday.com http://www.reyfortmediagroup.com Tel: (604) 588-news (6397) Fax: (604) 588-6387 Copyright of letters and other materials submitted and accepted for publication remains with the author, but the Publisher may freely reproduce them in any other forms. Opinions and views expressed are of the author’s and do not necessarily reflect the views of the PHILIPPINE ASIAN NEWS TODAY. E-mail: [email protected] Breaking Point By Rosette Correa Every immigrant will agree with me when I say that everything tastes, feels, and smells better from where we come from, especially during Christmas. As most Filipinos say, “Mas masaya ang Pasko sa atin!” (Christmas is much more joyful in our country). There is something to being where you grew up and experienced many things, and the taste, feel and smell of things are heightened not only because of their actual qualities, but because of the experiences that are attached to it. My eldest grew up in the Philippines before we left for Canada some fourteen years ago, and one of her objectives on our trip back was to eat at all the restaurants and food places she loved growing up. Our first excursion was to the food court mall, where she ate to her heart’s content, food like Potato Corner, Dunkin Donuts, Sizzling Plate Henlin siomai, guyabano and green mango shake, chicharon bulaklak and bituka. She has yet to get a hold of binalot,but as she went through one meal to the next, she explained to her little sister her experiences for each one, one story woven into the next, making meaning out of each morsel of food, and how our experiences as a family eating at those places gave a humble value to what we ate. One of the greatest lessons my eldest learned growing up in the Philippines was to appreciate what we had despite our poverty, making ends meet with the little money Bulong Pulungan By Deedee Siytangco Reprinted from Manila Bulletin ANGEL THOUGHTS If you want to change the world, go home and love the family. —St. Mother Teresa Thank you, Lord, for this coming Christmas Day! Despite our mistrust of each other, simmering hatreds because of differences in ideologies and political leanings, the economic hardships most of us experience in our daily lives, it’s still awesome to be again preparing to welcome our Savior’s birth—as it was in the little town of Bethlehem more than 2,000 years ago. While we usually think of Christmas as a peaceful event, Pope Francis reminds us that it wasn’t so. Joseph had to be told by an angel that it was A Christmas Feast of the Senses we had from my husband’s and my salary as teachers. Of course, the prices today were far different from before because of inflation, but the joy of seeing both my girls enjoying the humble fare is what makes the experience truly amazing. My youngest understood each story and experience, and while she grew up in Canada, she has always been grounded and knows that real poverty exists in other parts of the world. She had to see it first hand, and to learn from it, as well as to do something about it in her own little way. My youngest had a chance to see real poverty on our trip, going from one place to another. While we prepared her for much of her life to appreciate what she had, and to share it with others, it was a different experience for her to see it first hand. The sight of poverty heightened her appreciation for it better, as she distributed Halloween candy to street children at the Department of Social Welfare and Development (DSWD) center in Cavite City. She ate “dirty ice cream” with them, and it tasted so much sweeter, as she shared it with the children. She saw how abject poverty does not wipe away childhood innocence and appreciation of gifts, especially during Christmas. To her, the sight of the smiles on the faces of children wearing ill-fitting clothes, slippers a size too big or too small, was a testament that despite difficulties, a steadfast spirit of hope can make a bad situation better. She has never seen challenges like these growing up in Canada, and what seems to be a serious problem to her is diminished by the challenges the street children have to face everyday. On our way to places to visit, she saw hungry faces pressed against the car widows, begging for money, and greeting her, “Meri Krismas!”, and she asked me what she had to do. She wanted to make it better for them, but she was at a loss at how to do it. When one is given that perspective of poverty at an early age, there comes a desire to do better, and my youngest now truly understands what that means. While she couldn’t help each child that came up to the car or to our door on Christmas Day, she now has a plan to put aside some money from her hard-earned baking business, to send to the DSWD project every year. I told her that while we can’t help each one of those children, she can help one or a few, and that, is the only thing that God asks of us. Saint Teresa of Calcutta once said that if you cannot feed everyone, just one would be sufficient. It is true that Christmas is better where you come from, because there are memories attached to each experience that you relive. For my eldest, it brought back many memories of her humble childhood and now she appreciates more the blessings she has been given. For my youngest, it gave her a better perspective on how the world can be made a better place, especially for poor children. In both cases, the true meaning of Christmas was manifested in the feast of the senses they experienced, and it has now inspired them to take action and to make the lives of others better, just like how our Saviour intended it to be. THE REASON FOR CHRISTMAS alright to make the Virgin Mary his spouse and that the child she was bearing was conceived by the Holy Spirit and was going to be the Savior of Mankind. They had to flee to Bethlehem but they couldn’t find any room in the inns so Joseph had to settle for a stable to shelter his family. King Herod was after the baby Jesus, so that after His birth, Joseph and Mary had to flee again to escape the murderous monarch. But amid this background of fear and apprehension and murderous intentions, the Star shone brightly in the sky as a beacon of hope and a message of peace and goodwill. May this message of love and hope prevail long after this beautiful season is over! By the way, I am so glad that the Holy Family is once more “fashionable” in many shop windows, like in the one designed and executed by Clang Garcia in New York city for the DOT, and in some commercial buildings n Makati. I hope next year, they can truly stage a “comeback,” don’t you? * * * I was in Vancouver last week to be with my son Junie, his wife Cora, and their two boys Monchu and Miggy. It was family bonding time, and despite breaking out in spots because of the unusually cold weather, I survived and enjoyed my visit. Thank you to my daughter Sandee for accompanying me on this “apostolic” visit and being able to reassure myself that indeed, WWW.PHILIPPINEASIANNEWSTODAY.COM my boy’s family was doing well. We were able to watch my eldest grandson Monchu, 19, swim in a competition in Whistler, too. He did well. This lola is very proud of him, his determination to excel in the sport, his patience in waking up in the early morning hours—even in freezing weather—to practice, practice, practice! He is also in the Special Olympics but competes in regular swim meets, too. * * * Our family is saddened by the demise of our dear, dear auntie, Lourdes “Nelly” Asuncion Intengan Jhocson at age 101. She was the only sister of our mother, Paz Intengan Munson, who died at age 92 CONT PAGE 11