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July 1 - 15, 2018 OPINION PHILIPPINE ASIAN NEWS TODAY  Rey Fortaleza - Publisher Carlito Pablo - Editorial Consultant Rosette Correa - Senior Editor Jun Cordero - Associate Editor Writers - Crisanta Sampang ; Columnists - Geoff Meggs, Ben Berto, Editha Corrales, Mon Datol, Fr. Jerry Orbos SVD, DeeDee Sytangco, Alan Samuel, Erie Maestro, Sandee M. Ed Malay, Jayne Anastacio, JJAtencio and Willie J. Uy (Manila Bureau Chief) Alvin Barrera / Mon Correa - Graphics and Layout ; Rolly Fortaleza - Graphics Design JoelCastro - Website; Julian Fortaleza - Sports Editor; Ricardo Fortaleza- Sports Photography Editor: Dean Guzman; Photograhers- Charles De Jesus/ Christian Cunanan Reyfort Publishing & Entertainment Office Add: 9955 -149th Street, Surrey, B.C. V3R 7N2 Email: [email protected] Website: www.philippineasiannewstoday.com http://www.reyfortmediagroup.com Tel: (604) 588-news (6397) Fax: (604) 588-6387 Copyright of letters and other materials submitted and accepted for publication remains with the author, but the Publisher may freely reproduce them in any other forms. Opinions and views expressed are of the author’s and do not necessarily reflect the views of the PHILIPPINE ASIAN NEWS TODAY. E-mail: [email protected] Feminism is as feminism does Breaking Point By Rosette Correa If you define feminism as the theory of the political, economic, and social equality of the sexes, then I am a feminist. I am a feminist because I believe women deserve the same opportunities as men in the corporate, political, economic and social arena. In fact, I believe women do a darn good job at everything because we can multi- task - try cooking a meal, doing the laundry, changing a diaper, teaching another child to read, answering the phone and going to work all dressed up with a well-made face on, and you know women can rule the world even if they were in the kitchen. I do believe, however, that there are things that men can do better than women, and vice versa, and that the two sexes do have a complementarity that cannot be denied. I need my husband to calm me down, to tell me everything’s okay, and to take the wheel when I cannot see clearly through my eyeliner-stained eyes because of the tears that won’t stop coming down my face. This does not make me less a feminist than I am, because this is is what makes me uniquely a woman - knowing when to surrender when I need someone else to take over. If you define feminism as being a supporter for anti-mail order brides, anti-teenage and young girl brides, anti-legalization of prostitution, anti- domestic abuse, anti-rape, and anti-sexual harassment,  then I am a feminist. As women, we have the dignity to make the right choices and to make other women realize that their choices are connected to their morality, culture and spirituality, and that respect for one’s self is paramount. These choices must be fair and just to all, but most especially to themselves. If you define feminism as one who adheres to the rights of women to seek abortion, then I am not a feminist. A feminist, by definition, seeks to uphold the rights of women - all women - so, I cannot subscribe to abortion because it tramples upon the rights of unborn women (and men, as well) to be born and to be given life. Rachel Harder, Conservative MP of Lethbridge in Alberta, was voted out of a committee to study women’s issues, for being anti-abortion and pro-life. The Liberal members of the party walked out of the nomination and said they cannot support the opposition “putting forward someone like Rachael Harder, whose voting record is opposed to where women stand.” Harder, for me, is a feminist, and can surely speak for women’s issues, because not all women who seek abortion are pro-choice - some of them are desperate and were not given an opportunity to speak to someone who could have helped them decide otherwise. For these Liberal MPs to destroy Harder’s credibility as one who cannot speak towards women’s issues simply because she did not share their views by being pro-choice is an anti- women move. They forget that Harder is a woman. If you define feminism as one who 100% supports all women’s rights movements such as not wearing a bra, open marriages, sex before marriage, the HPV vaccine for teenage girls,  girls Canadian Armed Forces continues recruitment in Vancouver The Canadian Armed Forces will have Thursday evening information sessions starting July 5, at the 620 Royal Avenue in New Westminster from 6 - 8 PM. The CAF is regularly recruiting men and women to join them every year. July 19 - General Information Presentation August 2 - In-Demand Occupations August 16 - Women in the Canadian Armed Forces August 30 - Paid Education Informing people on the many job opportunities in the CAF is the first step to a potential rewarding and fulfilling career. The CAF hopes to spread the word on their information sessions. For more information, interested parties may contact Lt. Simon Chow, Attractions & Diversity Officer, Canadian Forces Recruiting Centre - Pacific (Vancouver), National Defence, Government of Canada or at [email protected] / Tel: 604-694-6390 ext 6311 half-naked going to an April 20 event or a concert at Holland Park in Surrey, then I am not a feminist. I believe that the only way women can have dignity and retain it is to make themselves recognize that dignity by not behaving how society dictates them to behave. I have taught my daughters that the only way to get respect is by respecting themselves first. I told then that if men know that they value their dignity, purity and respectability, then they will meet a real man who is willing to wait and not be swayed by sexuality. If the men  weren’t willing to wait, then they weren’t worth the time. I told them that as a woman and a feminist, we need to keep our dignity and teach the world how it should behave towards us, on our terms, not theirs. When we subdue the rights of people, even the rights of men, we cannot be called feminists. The rights of men include their right to be heard on issues that affect women, as it affects them as well. Men can be feminists, too, but not the likes of those who pretend to be concerned about the rights of women by giving them abortion as the only solution to their problems, or by not funding organizations who do not subscribe to the idea of pro-choice. As feminists, we should be concerned for all of humanity - for mankind. And no, there is no such thing as womankind, because semantically speaking, “mankind” is a collective form of “humankind” or the human race. Being politically correct alone doesn’t make one a feminist either. Gloria Steinem once said in the 1960s that, “A feminist is someone who recognizes the equality and full humanity of women and men.” Women and men work together to define feminism because we are all collectively human first.  Women in the military or in the hospitals, women in higher office or those behind a typewriter, women who have to work themselves to the bone to feed their families - these are the real women. Let’s make feminism more about the achievements of women like these, and not make feminism a superficial notion that it is an empowerment to do whatever one feels like doing. That’s not what feminism is.● Surrey Fusion Festival has 53 cultural pavilions Surrey, BC – Surrey Fusion Festival, presented by Coast Capital Savings, will introduce 14 new cultural pavilions in 2018, once again making it the largest multicultural celebration in B.C. Up from 39 pavilions in 2017 to 53, this year’s expanded festival— taking place July 21–22 at Holland Park—welcomes first time participants Albania, Argentina, Brazil, England, Guatemala, Greece, Haiti, Hong Kong, Japan, Kazakhstan, Korea, Portugal, Sri Lanka and Venezuela.  “Surrey Fusion Festival started with only 22 pavilions in 2008, and has grown enormously over the past 11 years,” said Mayor Linda Hepner. “It’s exciting to see it continually evolve. We thank our presenting sponsor, Coast Capital Savings, and our many community and cultural groups for their continued support in providing residents and visitors with an unforgettable experience year after year.”  The theme for this year’s festival and cultural showcases is influential women. Participants will celebrate inspiring or influential women and the contributions they have made to their WWW.PHILIPPINEASIANNEWSTODAY.COM culture through displays of music, art and crafts. First, second and third place for Best Dressed Pavilion will be awarded to the most impressive exhibitions.  “Surrey Fusion Festival is a wonderful community celebration offering residents and visitors a chance to explore world cultures through unique experiences, food and entertainment,” said Councillor Mary Martin, chair of the Diversity Advisory Committee. “We’re looking forward to another year of world-class performances and the opportunity to learn about influential women from across the globe.”  Named Best Festival at the Regional Canadian Event Industry Awards in 2017, Surrey Fusion Festival is a free community event celebrating food, music and culture from around the world. This year’s event will welcome over 150 performers, including headliners Walk Of f The Earth on Saturday, July 21 and Ranjit Bawa on Sunday, July 22. For more information, visit www. surreyfusionfestival.ca. ●