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L ast week was an intensely stressful week for me to say the least. So on top of the lengthy to-do list I had, and the heaps of studying I had to finish. I’m sitting at work, and I get a text from my boyfriend reminding me that I have a doctor’s appointment. I involuntarily freak out, knowing I have to get two shots throughout my checkup. When I was a child, I was utterly terrified of needles and not much has changed. On the floor sobbing, I can’t catch my breath. I will avoid going near any needle at all cost, so just the thought of visiting the doctor gave me a full-on panic attack. I was anxious the whole night and couldn’t focus on anything. Oftentimes our fears and phobias can leave us with a restless mind. We tend to get exceptionally anxious before a substantial event, or in my case a doctor’s appointment. Here are some of the ways I soothe an uneasy mind. 1. GO FOR A WALK Nature has been proven to help everything from ADHD to productivity. If you have ever taken a walk in the park, completed a hike, or a bike ride outdoors you know how much joy can come from such a simple act. A 25-minute walk in the fresh cool air does miracles for the mind and the body. There is truly nothing more calming than sitting in a park or a peaceful forest to clear your head. Be sure not to bring your phone or any type of electronics so you can truly unplug. Unplugging is great for the soul and any anxious thoughts you may be having. Taking a walk outside is the perfect time to turn off the phone and be fully present in the moment. Bring along your friends or a family member for some extra laughs. 2. MEDITATE FOR 15 MINUTES Meditation helps to quiet an overactive mind. If you are feeling restless meditation helps to get rid of fearful racing thoughts. Meditating has tremendous benefits but can be intimidating for a beginner. I started meditating every day almost six months ago, and it has been amazing for my health and well-being. Let me tell you now it is not an easy thing and takes lots of practice and concentration. The benefits make it worth the effort. Meditation improves your immune system, lowers blood pressure, and of course reduces stress. If you’re not sure how to meditate there are plenty of videos to walk you through the process. 3. UNPLUG (NO EMAILS OR SOCIAL MEDIA) Many of us have an unhealthy attachment to our phones and social media. If you want to put your mind at ease stay offline, especially social media. It can be a cause of unneeded stress and anxiety. You don’t need any stress on top of stress already present. Relax, and take a break from social media. The emails will still be there waiting for you when you come back. 4. PRACTICE GRATITUDE When you are in a place of gratitude, you will feel so much more composed, and at peace. I like to think about all the beauty currently in my life. When my mind is feeling anxious it helps me to feel calm and that things are going to be okay. 5. LISTEN TO YOUR FAVORITE TUNES OR CALMING SOUNDS Music seriously can do wonders for a restless mind, it soothes the mind, and gives it rest. 21 Close your eyes and put on your favorite songs. If music proves to be too much, turn on some soothing sounds. 6. CRY IT OUT Sometimes all you really need is to just let it all out. When you’re done you will feel so much better. Crying is a natural and healthy human response to disappointment and sorrow. It is a natural way to get rid of emotional stress, and when it is left unchecked it can even have negative physical effects on the body. So go ahead and let it all out; when you’re done you will feel 10 times better. 7. TAKE A LONG RELAXING BATH A warm bath gets rid of tensed muscles and puts you in a relaxing mindset. Light some candles, and throw in some Lush bath bombs to further set the soothing mood. 8. SLEEP IT OFF Jump into some comfortable pajamas and give yourself a break for a while. Not only will you feel refreshed, you will give your mind a break from racing thoughts. 9. READ YOUR FAVORITE BOOK OR BLOG Instead of watching television or scrolling through your social media feed grab your favorite book. Preferably one you’ve read before, this way your mind doesn’t need to travel too far. 10. PRACTICE MINDFULNESS Focus on being aware of the present moment. Calmly acknowledge how you are feeling and the thoughts you are having. Don’t try to pretend they are not there. Feelings are just that, let them come and let them go.