DOES HE OR SHE MAKE TIME FOR YOU? An important factor in all relationships is if your potential mate actually WANTS to spend time with you. One of the worst misconceptions in dating is that the super busy person who has limited time for you will somehow magically have time for you when you two get together… THAT’S A BIG FAT WRONG. Healthy relationships have a mixed and balanced together vs not together times and occasions. Even though you attach yourself as a companion to your mate, one must realize we are all independent beings who at times will need our own space and alone time to find ourselves, dive into our interests, and have time for self-reflection. It is very healthy to have times when you are not with your mate to allow for breathing room and growth. The problems start when healthy space becomes a more so experience and less time is made for couple time or fun activity time. Ensure both of you plan for time with each other. If it seems like a chore for your mate to spend time with you, then you better prepare yourself for a very lonely relationship ahead. A relationship is a living and breathing entity, you both must nurture it, sustain it, and help it grow. If both partners aren’t putting effort in, the end is inevitable.
At the end of the day one things stands true...actions will always speak louder than words.
"...we are all independent beings who at times will need our own space and alone time to find ourselves."
"A relationship is living, breathing entity..."
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