trips in high school or college , you ’ ve likely had these conversations already . Trips can be a major expense , and they ’ re not something that co-parents should feel obligated to fund for their child . The costs can certainly add up with airfare or gas , lodging , meals , activities , and souvenirs . That said , if a parent is willing to pay for it in its entirety or even a portion of it , it should be viewed as a gift and celebrated . This is another great opportunity to sit down with your child and discuss what you and your co-parent are able or willing to pay , and then map out what your child will need to cover on their own .
ONE-TIME PURCHASES
There are plenty of big-ticket purchases that may only be a one-time expense . For my family , these are items like laptops , cell phones , sporting equipment , or musical instruments . For these types of purchases , co-parents should discuss how to handle these types of expenses and what each parent is willing or able to contribute . If you and your parenting partner are unable to come to an agreement to fund something , then you ’ ll need to have a conversation about the child ’ s ability to participate in said activity . For instance , if your child wants to play lacrosse , but you and your co-parent can ’ t afford the equipment or private lessons associated with it , then your child may need to try another sport or get a part-time job to cover the cost .
These types of conversations can be difficult , and you may not always reach an agreement . If you ’ re unable to have an open discussion with your parenting partner or come to a resolution , it may be time to bring in a professional . ROAD to RESOLUTION is committed to helping you and your family during your co-parenting journey . As a certified co-parenting coach , mediator , and family law attorney , I can serve as a resource for your co-parenting needs . Through my experience , I can work with you and your parenting partner to create or update a parenting agreement or help mediate co-parenting discussions . To learn more about my co-parenting coaching services , reach out to ROAD to RESOLUTION . My Charlotte-based law firm and experienced legal team would be honored to serve you . n
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