WELLNESS MATTERS
pre-planned summer schedules as kids , they want a little more control and flexibility since they have internships , part-time jobs , and other commitments .
In terms of summer vacations , our children typically take a family trip with each of their parents every year . So that means my biological children , Ellie and Buchanan , will take a vacation with their father . My husband ’ s biological children , Kase , Jake , and Walker , will take a vacation with their mother . Then , all five of our children get a second trip with my husband and me for our summer vacation .
Over the years , we ’ ve become pros at communicating with our parenting partners about even the most minor changes . As co-parents , we all need to create a positive atmosphere for our parenting partners and our children .
For example , I recommend telling your parenting partners who will be with you on a family vacation , giving details on where you ’ re going , sharing emergency contact information , and discussing any out-of-the-ordinary activities . While you should honor your shared parenting agreement , understand that allowing some flexibility is also important . If an agreement seems outdated or irrelevant , get it updated by a family law attorney . This will help you and your parenting partners mind your “ summer manners ” and make the most out of your time with your children . For my husband and me , at this stage in our children ’ s teenage and adult lives , we appreciate every moment they want to spend with us .
From my family to yours , we wish you a safe , healthy , fun , and wonderful summer season . n
Robin Perrigo-Mermans is a collaborative attorney and certified mediator . She owns
ROAD to RESOLUTION , a divorce mediation and collaborative family law firm , in Charlotte . Due to her unique perspective as an attorney , mother , and stepmother , she is an expert in shared parenting solutions and co-parenting guidance . She is committed to using her personal story and passion to help her clients save time and money , while avoiding unnecessary emotional turmoil during their divorce journey and on their road to resolution .
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