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SARAH’S FOUR WORDS Hereʼs a true story I wrote over 20 years ago that climaxed with four unforgettable words. One of my first jobs as a therapist was at a convalescent hospital many years ago. In one of the wards I met a deeply beautiful Larry Wonderling woman in her early twenties. She had bright blue eyes, baby smooth complexion, rosy red lips, cheeks that dimpled when she smiled, and shoulder length brown hair that framed her pretty face. Her twisted, gnarled tiny body was like some fleshy pretzel, with legs bent around her torso and arms crossed and intertwined with her legs. Her body move- ments were mainly twitches and jerks, and her voice was a barely audible whisper. As I noticed her for the first time, her unblink- ing eyes seemed to plead with me to stay. So I sat by her little crib and introduced myself, before I began to even slightly grasp the severity of her condition. Her eyes reminded me of a little puppy whose wide-eyed innocence holds you in its intense stare of affection and curiosity. As I sat almost transfixed by her star- ing, she seemed to be trying to speak. I leaned over her crib as she said something in sighs and whispers that I couldnʼt understand. Her eyes followed me closely as I left her side; and later that same day I learned from records about her abandonment by parents and her pro- gressively severe Cerebral Palsy. I was determined to understand her failing speech, and every weekday I listened carefully to her breathy efforts to tell me something. After a month, her dimpled smile and wide-eyed stare assured me that she enjoyed my company, even though I still didnʼt know what she was trying to say. During our second month, her whispers seemed like distant words that I couldnʼt reach, yet she kept holding me with her eyes that replied so emphatically to whatever I had to say. She could show laughter, sad- ness, excitement, even gratitude with her eyes. At least once a week, Iʼd take her for a spin around the wards in a small buggy, and her eyes would tell me that she loved every minute of it. It happened during the fourth month of my many visits. After an understandably weak smile at one of my corny jokes, she began her slow, painstaking whis- per, and as I had done so many times before, I leaned into her crib, put my ear to her mouth and listened. Her barely audible words shrieked in my ear, “I want to die!” Together we cried, long and hard. Mercifully, she died in her sleep about a year later. Thereʼs no happy ending to this story, just my heart-breaking memories to share with you. – Larry Wonderling, Ph.D. Email: [email protected] New Purses Have Arrived! Shampoo & Style ........................$25 Haircut & Style ............................$35 Highlight/Full Weave ....... $65 & Up One Color w/Cut ........................$65 Multi-Colors .................................$85 Men’s Haircuts............................ $15 Waxing ..........................................$12 Shairi’s Barber/Salon (928) 237-0017 1101 Old Chisholm Trail pccnews September 2017 7