PCC News Monthly May 2015 | 页面 12

CES Trying Hard... Not Smart Hair Stylist This is a short story from a booklet I received years ago entitled you2 by Price Pritchett. I read it every year. Enjoy. Has Moved I’m sitting in a quiet room at the Millcroft Inn, a peaceful little place hidden back among the pine trees about an hour out of Toronto. It’s just past noon, late July and I’m listening to the desperate sounds of a life-or-death struggle going on a few feet away. Susan Murray Susan Murray, Formerly of Shari’s Barber Stylist Salon on Old Chisum Road in Prescott Country Club, IS NOW at P.V. Beauty Salon & Boutique, 8708 E. State Rt. 69 in Prescott Valley. Just 3.7 miles from PCC on the North frontage road in PV..... Between N. Truewood Dr. and N. Navajo Dr. Call Susan Murray at (928) 273-1379 for appointments & B O U T I Q U E 8708 E. State Rt. 69 in Prescott Valley SERVICES Valerie, Mary, Julie Emmy, SERVICES SERVICES SERVICES SERVICES There’s a small fly burning out the last of its short life’s energies in a futile attempt to fly through the glass of the windowpane. The whining wings tell the poignant story of the fly’s strategy--try harder. But it’s not working. The frenzied effort offers no hope for survival. Ironically the struggle is part of the trap. It is impossible for the fly to try hard enough to succeed at breaking through the glass. Nevertheless, this little insect has staked its life on reaching its goal through raw effort and determination. The fly is doomed. It will die there on the windowsill. Across the room, ten steps away, the door is open. Ten seconds of flying time and this small creature could reach the outside world it seeks. With only a fraction of the effort now being wasted, it could be free of this self-imposed trap. The breakthrough possibility is there. It would be so easy. Why doesn’t the fly try another approach, something dramatically different? How did it get so locked in on the idea that this particular route and determined effort, offers the most promise and success? What logic is there in continuing until death, to seek a breakthrough with “more of the same”? No doubt this approach makes sense to the fly. Regrettably, it’s an idea that will kill. “Trying harder” isn’t necessarily the solution to achieving more. It may not offer any real promise for giving what you want out of life. Sometimes, in fact, it’s a big part of the problem. If you stake your hopes for a breakthrough on trying harder than ever, you may kill your chances for success. Emmy, Valerie, Mary, Julie [email protected] • www.nfppc.com Senior Discounts Gordon Barth is the owner of Islands Fitness Center www.islandsfitness.com Sometimes Trying Hard Is... FUTILE 12 May 2015 pccnews