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PRESIDENT’S M e s s a g e A Personal Reflection on Parental Leave and the Practice of Law Gregory P. Huber 2018-19 PBCBA President To address the question, I have received from several of you- no, I am not planning on having another child. My January “resolution article” was written in early December before Janson Eli surprised us arriving a month early on December 17th. After a rough start, he is miraculously doing wonderful, and we couldn’t be more blessed but NOPE absolutely no plans for another one. His early arrival did get me thinking about the birth of my daughter, Jade, many years ago and how different things are now compared to then. While I was worried sick about Janson whose little lungs weren’t quite ready for his early arrival, I felt truly blessed not to have the additional stress of my work obligations. I was able to have my office find coverage and clear my schedule. I was also able to spend all the time I needed at the hospital while he was in the NICU and when he could go home, I was able to take time off work to spend with him. After returning to work, I’ve been able to modify my schedule to limit early morning appointments to help with the fatigue from the late nights and have had the flexibility to work from home. This has allowed me to remain productive while also spending precious time with my son. This is a significant contrast to when my daughter was born. trial practice in Miami. I worked with some truly wonderful attorneys who I respect tremendously and will forever be grateful to, but when my daughter was born while there were lots of congratulations, the celebration was short-lived, and I was expected to return to work almost immediately. There was no discussion about taking time off to spend with my new baby. There was no suggestion that I should reduce my 12-hour work days or that I should stop coming in on the weekends so I could spend more time with my daughter. I’m not even sure if paternity leave was a thing back then but, I certainly didn’t hear about it. I survived, but it was an extremely challenging time that I believe easily could have been much more manageable had I been encouraged to take part in some form of paternity leave. Reflecting on my two completely different experiences made me wonder what the current trends are in the legal industry when it comes to parental leave. Personally, I see it as a health and wellness/work-life balance issue and hope that the legal industry is seeing it that way as well. When my daughter was born, had paternity leave been available I probably would not have accepted it because I would have been concerned that I would look weak or that it might have a negative Back then, I was a young associate impact on my long-term career given getting my feet wet at a business civil PBCBA BAR BULLETIN 3 the culture at that time. Hopefully, the legal industry is moving away from those antiquated ideas and realizing that happier, healthy people make better attorneys.