Loss of a Brother or Sister
Your unique relationship with
your brother or sister may
make your feelings of grief
different from the reaction
of your other siblings or
your parents. You may
also believe that you
need to protect your
parents from your
grief.
It can be hard to
talk to parents
about your
feelings at any
time, let alone
when they have
lost a loved one
as well. Seek out
someone you can
talk to. Know that
it is okay to forgive
yourself for the fights
and arguments you may have had with your
brother or sister.
You may feel as if there is an empty place in
your family, but you can go on living. Remember
your sibling but know that it is okay to go
on with your life. Be patient with your family
members, because each of you will mourn in a
different way.
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