Parvati Magazine February 2014 - Sobriety1 | Page 11

MEDITATION There is a Buddhist precept, taken by all serious practitioners, that goes like this: “I undertake to train myself to refrain from taking intoxicants.” Some centres add “to the point of heedlessness” or alter the vow to refraining from taking “substances that cloud the mind.” Psychotropic drugs are usually included in this precept. The question often comes up, “Does that mean I cannot have an occasional glass of wine?” How that question is answered depends on the centre and its orientation to the consumption of alcohol but even when there is acquiescence to participating in a societal ‘norm’, the idea of drinking to the point of heedlessness or drunkenness would be considered a breaking of the precept. So, how does a present seeker of truth approach this ecstasy/sobriety dilemma? An initial step, to my mind, is to contemplate the nature of addiction. A spiritual ‘high’ can be as addictive as the gloom espoused by some Buddhists that ‘all is suffering,’ so nothing can be done but bear it. If we are honest with ourselves, we can determine which side of this equation we fall into. If we are constantly searching for ways to be ‘up’, then we may fall into the first category and therefore we need to become more ‘sober’. That will probably include becoming more realistic about the spiritual path. Or it might mean we need to check ourselves to see if we are capable of ‘making a peanut butter sandwich’ for our children within moments of completing our meditation practice. In other words, is our spirituality grounded or are we able to ground ourselves swiftly after a practice that may bring about an ecstatic or mystical state? If we are continually seeing life as a set of diminishing returns, we may have become too ‘sober’ and need to open up to the beauty and joy that can be found in religious art or music. The balance, for me, is most easily found by going into nature. A beautiful sunset can move my heart to ecstasy and an overly strenuous hike can sober my outlook, especially as I move into my seventies. Whether sober or in ecstasy, we should always strive to promote careful mindfulness of whatever is arising in the mind and in the body. Through awareness, we can most easily ‘see’ what is going on and in later development will be able to detect the more subtle state of bliss that accompanies deeper understanding. “When all is reduced to the One, to what is the One reduced?” This question can only be answered when the balance between sobriety and ecstasy has been achieved. copyright © 2013 by Lama Catherine Rathbun Catherine Rathbun received her traditional teaching name, Lama Jetsun Yeshe, from Ven. Karma Thinley Rinpoche, a lineage master of the Sakya and Kagyu