Parker County Today February 2020 | Page 6

A Letter From The Editor Dream Jobs and Success — They’re Defined Differently by Different People S 4 uccess may very well be the most overused word in America today. What does it actually mean? Webster’s Dictionary defines success as “the accomplish- ment of an aim or purpose.” Well, that’s rather bland. Everyone seems to have their own, personal definition of success.  My definition of success is knowing that what you’re doing is helping you and others lead a better, happier, healthier life. To me, success means creating a business that empowers or inspires its staff, clients, employees, and community. I personally set out to create a product that would be interesting and inspiring about Parker County that Parker County could take pride in. I also like the way success is defined by Co-Chair of Disney Media Networks and President of the Disney-ABC Television Group Anne Sweeney. She once said, “Define success on your own terms, achieve it by your own rules, and build a life you’re proud to live.” Ms. Sweeney knows quite a lot about success. Prior to her work at Disney/ABC she was chairman and CEO of FX Networks Inc. from 1993 to 1996. During her tenure, she presided over the launch of two basic cable networks, FX, an entertainment network, and FXM: Movies from Fox, Hollywood’s first studio-based movie network. But that’s just her professional life. In her spare time, Ms. Sweeney is active in organizations both inside and outside of the cable industry. She is a board member of A&E Television Group, Netflix, the Museum of Television & Radio, Special Olympics and an honorary chair of Cable Positive. She’s married to Philip Miller and they have two children, Christopher and Rosemary. Christopher is on the autism spectrum. She’s a Roman Catholic and attends St. Monica Church in California.  At 62, she has a long enduring marriage, two great kids, helps with a number of charitable causes and has a net worth of $30 million.  When you Google her, you will find almost nothing about her personal life. To me, that’s pretty impressive. Early in my career, I had an idea about how great it would be to be able to create a business that everyone would enjoy. Staff-members would actually enjoy coming to work, clients would look forward to being in the office, the parents who worked there would be able to attend their kids’ soccer games and school plays and whatever else their budding geniuses were doing.  To me, having the ability to work in the same quaint small town where you live and raise your family — to me that’s a dream job. Maya Angelou once said, “Success is liking yourself, liking what you do, and liking how you do it.” Before Parker County Today, I had a lot of great jobs. I also had a few that weren’t so great and a couple that were downright ghastly. I had one that started out to be fun. The pay was pretty meager, but I had a great boss who made a deal with me that allowed me to work at home most of the time, so I could help look after my ailing mother, whom I adored. She was having mini-strokes at the time, although I didn’t know it then. By the time the strokes were diagnosed, my great editor had left and was replaced by an editor that was not at all great. He wasn’t great to me, the community, or anyone else. He gave me fits about working from home, even though I had a contract that said I could do that. Our publisher would not allow him to get rid of me, but that didn’t stop him from working to make my life miserable as I struggled to take care of my dying mother. Eventually, I left that publication. I took another job that paid much better, but it was in downtown Fort Worth. Exciting work, challenging, with a great publication, but I was sleeping hardly at all. I spent every spare moment I could with my mom. My husband forgot what I looked like. I recall writing a hard-hitting story, a fascinating expose on a nationally known woman, up against a tough deadline and having to stop and have tea with my mother and watch a documentary on pot-bellied pigs with her. It was half an hour long. I had exactly an hour and a half before my article was due. I had two hours worth of writing to do. My new editor was brilliant and very tough. He was one of the best editors I ever worked with (he ended up working for the New York Times, but that’s another story). As I sat in my living room with my fragile mom, sipping Earl Grey and nibbling on scones, my mom reached over and grabbed my hand. She said, “Isn’t this fun?” Her smile was radiant. “Yeah, Momma,” I said. “This is great fun.” I called my editor and managed to weasel an extra hour out of him. He was amazingly gracious about it. I met my new deadline. No problem. That was one of the most successful moments of my career. I’ll never forget my mother’s smile.  I’ll also never forget my resolution that when I was in charge, I would make sure that those who worked for me would never have to worry about taking 30 minutes to have tea with their gravely ill mother or father or grandfather or child.  Recently, in the course of a meeting with a member of our PCT team, I said, “Compared to some of the jobs I’ve had, this is a dream job.”  She said, “This is your dream, Marsha. It’s not mine.” Know what? She’s right. Yes, this is my dream job. Thanks for Reading, Marsha Brown Parker County Today