Parent Magazine Volusia April 2020 | Page 26

Emotional Skills SELF-CARE. Kids can’t learn to take care of their needs unless they learn to pay attention to them. Going to camp puts kids’ self-care muscles to the test. Navigating a new environment with unfamiliar people helps kids learn to trust their intuition and honor their more accepted and appreciated every time they make a new friend. EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE. If you have siblings who bicker quite a bit, they may benefit from getting along more easily with kids who are not kin. Camp counselors have a way of expecting thoughtfulness and instincts. encouraging kids to practice it. LISTENING. Do you get weary of nagging and LASTING CONNECTIONS. Remember pen pals? feeling your child just doesn’t listen anymore? Kids can certainly develop listening fatigue with parents and other everyday authority figures. But after tuning in At camps, kids can make new friends and find ways to keep in touch until they meet again. This is a great way for kids to maintain long-distance friendships and build closely to some new-to-them camp leaders, they just an extended social network. might bring better listening abilities back home. SELF-EXPRESSION. Parents may unwittingly hold PLAYFULNESS. Got a perfectionist kid on your kids back from finding new forms of self-expression. hands? Sometimes within the rush and rigors of daily life, families forget how to relax and enjoy life to the fullest. Camp is a great place to remember how to At camp, kids find fresh audiences for the countless ways to share who they are and what they think and feel. Increased self-expression leads to unfolding self- lighten up and enjoy the day. discovery. GRIT. This trendy term means the combination of COHABITATING. If you want your child to learn courage and resolve. If your child does not bounce back quickly from disappointments, camp is a great place to learn tenacity, conflict resolution and problem solving. SELF-APPRECIATION. Do you appreciate the heck new things, put him in a tent with roommates and watch the lessons unfold. Sharing space and resources with others is a crash course in self-awareness and peacekeeping. out of your kid but wish he would esteem himself as Occupational Skills much as others? Camp is a place where kids can discover MENTORING. Camp counselors provide excellent new things to like about themselves. Increased self- reliance is often the first step towards building higher self-esteem. examples of what a constructive mentor-mentee relationship is like. Go ahead and encourage kids to become counselors in the future if they wish to Social Skills experience both sides of this educational relationship. SOCIABILITY. Do you have a shy or introverted COLLABORATION. Perhaps during the school child? If she lacks peers who are enthusiastic about her passions, an interest-based camp can help her meet more like-minded people. Socially awkward kids feel “ year, teamwork is limited to sports and cooperation is confined to the classroom. At camp, every endeavor from cleaning a cabin to climbing a rock face becomes NAVIGATING A NEW ENVIRONMENT WITH UNFAMILIAR PEOPLE HELPS KIDS LEARN TO TRUST THEIR INTUITION AND HONOR THEIR INSTINCTS.” 22 | V O L U S I A parent M A G A Z I N E