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and Tools for the Whole Family,” for tips on starting a family practice. Yoga Tips and Tools for the Whole Family Practice Anywhere Yoga benefits everyone. If you’ve practiced yoga before, it’s time to restart your practice. If you haven’t, why not try it yourself or as a family? Breathe: Breathing can be centering, energizing, or Tips for Parents • Get back on the mat after having a baby. Monaco encourages new moms to get back on the mat as soon as your doctor gives the OK. The longer you wait, the less likely you are to get back. Just remember to meet your practice where it is. Your body has been through a lot. Classes provide a safe introduction to yoga and ongoing support, but the beauty of yoga is that you can practice any place and any time. Here are two practices you can do anywhere: calming. For parents, try breathing deeply while holding an upset child. Monaco says “When my daughter is fussy, deep breathing with her in my arms works every time.” Dagle uses “flower breathing” with her toddler: sniff a flower and let it go with a sigh, to help diffuse big emotions. Dagle teaches older kids to use breathing exercises to calm themselves before a test. She encourages them to put their feet firmly on the ground at their desk, inhale for a count of four, and exhale for a count of six for one minute to help them feel both calm and grounded. Be present: Practice mindfulness and being present. That means noticing your environment. There are lots of ways to practice this with kids—you don’t even have to call it mindfulness. • Sit quietly together or go for a walk, and see what you notice. Try closing your eyes. What sounds and smells do you sense? • Turn off your phone and spend some time doing an activity with your kids, whether it’s reading, coloring, dancing, snuggling, or building. Just focus on what you’re doing, with no distractions. • Describe something familiar as if it were new. In an exercise from Planting Seeds: Practicing Mindfulness with Children by Thich Nhat Hanh, kids pretend they are Martians seeing something from Earth for the first time. Hand your kids a familiar object (the book uses raisins, but you can use any simple object or food kids “see” every day). Remind them that they have never seen it before. Ask them to look, touch, smell, listen, and taste and describe their experience. Yoga builds strength and flexibility, self-confidence and focus. Kids get comfortable in and connected to their own bodies and minds, and learn practices that they use for the rest of their lives. What’s not to say Yes to? If you would like to see Yoga in your school ... we can help! in partnership with contact us to learn how to share yoga with your children & students [email protected] • Practice with your kids around. Monaco put her daughter on the mat with her as a baby. Dagle spreads out her mat in the playroom and practices while her kids play around (and under and over) her. If you’re used to a peaceful yoga studio, practicing with your kids around will be different, but you still benefits from your practice. • Remember that your yoga is good for your kids. Dagle says, “When I make the time to practice, I’m a better parent when I’m with my kids.” It may feel selfish to take that time for a class or home practice, but it’s worth it. Tips for Families • Keep it fun. Use yoga songs and games. Let kids pick or even lead poses. Go with the flow. If energy levels are high, try some poses or actions to use some of that energy before shifting to something calmer. • Remember you can practice anywhere. Remind kids to use their breathing when they are getting frustrated. If you can’t get kids to take a deep breath, try taking calming breaths yourself. It helps keep you from getting worked up and helps change the dynamic in the room. Try mindfulness on long car trips or while waiting in line. Practice kindness and nonviolence. Tools for Everyone Here are a few resources to help your family develop your practice: Books Baby Om by Laura Staton Little Flower Yoga for Kids by Jennifer Cohen Harper Peaceful Piggy Meditation by Kerry Lee McLean Practicing Mindfulness with Children by Thich Nhat Hanh Sitting Still Like a Frog by Eline Snel Yoga Mama, Yoga Baby by Margo Shapiro Bachman Yoga Pretzels, pose deck Websites YogaJournal.com (Poses) | YogaGlo. com Like Us to see what we are doing in our community Sara Barry is a writer who has practiced yoga for 15 years. Both her daughters have taken yoga classes and love to lead her in poses. She writes about parenting, nature, season activities, mindfulness and where they all intersect. S T. J O H N S parent M A G A Z I N E | 13