Parent Magazine Flagler January 2019 | Page 14

They provide recording devices to families and encourage them to speak more to their children. With practice, the quantity and the quality of parent/child interactions have increased. Parents are taught to praise their children, to respond to the children’s language with more information, (Doggy? Yes, that’s a brown doggy.), and to generally raise the number of verbal interactions throughout the day. If you grew up in a home that didn’t do a lot of talking, you might find it a stretch to add to the number of words spoken to your children. But know that words are free and you are doing a wonderful service to your child’s language awareness and future learning success. What does all this information mean for your home learning environment? FACTS ON C HILDREN AND L ANGUAGE: You can give your child a boost in language learning. Much of the language experience can take place while reading to your child. Books lend themselves to many forms of language experience and you can begin the day your baby is born. Singing songs, reciting nursery rhymes, engaging in word games, such as “How Big is Baby? Soooo Big,” all of these provide rich learning for your child. So talk, talk, talk—your child will benefit from it. • Families tend to talk more to girls than to boys which may account for language delays in boys. • Even babies benefit from lots of talk. They learn vocabulary, begin to identify objects, and respond to various emotions and relationships. • Children who are “talk deprived” will have a smaller vocabulary and test lower on language processing skills tests. • Children love repetition in language. It helps them remember words and learn the relationships between them. Talk to your child throughout the day. With older children, make it a point to ask • The gap between language rich and language poor homes can cause a child to be as much as two years behind in language skills when they begin school. questions that are open-ended. What is your favorite color? Why are you feeling happy, angry, or afraid? What was the best thing that happened today? Take opportunity to praise your child appropriately. (You’re right, that is a dinosaur. Can you find another one?) • Television or other “electronic” language is not helpful to a child’s language growth and can even be a detriment as it blocks out real communication with family members. You respond to their speech and add a bit more. • Learning potential can be either optimized or stunted. As Erika Hoff, a developmental psychologist from Florida Atlantic University put it, “Children cannot learn what they don’t hear.” Jan Pierce, M.Ed., is a retired teacher and a writer. She is the author of Homegrown Readers: Simple Ways to Help Your Child Learn to Read. Find her at www.janpierce.net. Enroll today! Spring semester classes start Jan. 14, 2019. (386) 506-4DSC DaytonaState.edu