Oxfordshire, the place to marry Oxfordshire 2017 | Page 12

“I do” WE WANT THIS TO BE A MEMORABLE DAY FOR EVERYONE INVOLVED... SO, WHAT HAPPENS AND WHEN? Before the ceremony To make sure everything goes ahead on time and without any hitches, please ensure you and your guests arrive at least 15 minutes before the time of your wedding. Remember to make allowances for traffic delays, parking and any pre-wedding photographs and inform your guests of this. The ceremony Saying “I do” in front of friends and family can be a nerve-racking event but the Registrars will be on hand to help you every step of the way. They will guide you through everything you need to do or say, so there is no need to worry about forgetting your lines or doing things in the wrong order! Before the ceremony, the Registrar who will be registering the marriage, will see the couple privately to check that the details to be entered into the marriage register are correct. You can be seen either individually or together, whichever you prefer. This is also an opportunity for you to ask any last minute questions. After these checks have been made we can proceed with the wedding ceremony itself. Once you, your guests and your witnesses are seated, the ceremony will begin with a welcome by the Registrar. The couple will be asked, in turn, to repeat a number of solemn declarations, which will be the choices you made for your legal declarations and contracting words (your vows) and your promises. See pages 12 and 13 for the options you can choose from. After you have made your marriage contract, you and your witnesses will sign the marriage register. After this, the Registrars will sign the register and will present you with your marriage certificate. 8 Oxfordshire: The place to marry