Oxfordshire Bereavement Guide | Page 21

WILLS & MEMORIALS What if there's no will? If someone dies without making a will, they are said to have died ‘intestate’. If this happens, the law sets out who should deal with the deceased’s affairs and who should inherit their estate. This information covers England and Wales only. When there is no will, dealing with the estate can be complicated. It can also take a long time - months or even years in some very complex cases. If matters are complex or you feel you need help, it’s a good idea to consult a solicitor as soon as possible. Show them all the information and documentation you have about the deceased person’s property, belongings and financial affairs. In the meantime, it may be a good idea to put small valuable items away for safekeeping. A memorial ceremony A memorial ceremony may be appropriate in the following circumstances: • the anniversary of a loved one’s death • following a small private funeral • to acknowledge a stillborn child • where family, friends and colleagues live abroad and it may not be  possible for them to make travel arrangements in time to attend the funeral • when a body is donated to medical research • when someone dies abroad and family and friends are unable to  attend the funeral • when a person has been lost/missing for some time and presumed  to be deceased • annual group ceremonies for bereaved families. A memorial ceremony doesn’t have to be a solemn occasion, it is a chance for all who knew the deceased to gather, socialise and share their memories, anecdotes and thoughts. The ceremony will show warmth, sincerity and will uniquely and affectionately celebrate the life of the deceased. A detailed tribute is paid to them, to the life they lived, the connections they made and have left behind. 19 ADVICE AND HELPLINE: 0845 129 5900