OutBoise Magazine November 2014 | Page 24

24  |  OutBoise Magazine  | NEWS OutBoise.com | Issue 1.2 | November 2014 The Treasure Valley UnityGary Simpson Project by I moved back here to Boise nearly 3 years ago. Upon arrival, I had no idea what my intentions were going to be. I just got out of a 4 year relationship, and it didn’t end well. I didn’t know anyone, really. And decided to spend some time with people in our community. I was welcomed quite warmly, but despite the inviting atmosphere, I was quickly met with warnings. Who not to associate with, who to trust, who not to. At first, I chose not to react to what people had to say. I let their comments go, and just continued through life, not really worrying what anyone else had to say. I figured it was just bar chatter. But the comments added up after a while. It wasn’t just a few people with this opinion. “Boise Sucks,” came from every corner, every demographic within the LGBT community I could find. It wasn’t until I sat down with a couple of individuals who discussed what life is like for members of our community who choose not to go out to the bars. The words reflected back were still the same. If you don’t fit into a specific age range, or demographic (typically male 21-35) you were an outcast, and that there weren’t any resources available, and very little interest to make anything better. It was at that point I realized that they, along with everyone else, were right. I didn’t see anything available as a social outlet, let alone a place where anyone felt like they belonged. Instead, there was too much separation based on social class or “title-holders.” It shamed me to see that our community had so much of a negative image of itself, let alone each other. So I set out to try to do something to fix the problem. I had been involved in a number of volunteer opportunities while I lived in Las Vegas. And while they weren’t targeting the LGBT community, it gave me some experience in what should be done. I set out to try to start a nonprofit organization dedicated to the LGBT community. Our goals were simple: Provide positive social activities, opportunities for community service, and to help discourage discrimination in our community. I met with a number of community members, involved in existing organizations, and was sarcastically met with “good luck.” “It’s been done before,” I was told. “There’s no need to reinvent the wheel...” “No one will take you seriously,” “It won’t work, people have tried and failed before...” These words hurt to hear, but helped me develop a better image of what was happening in the community. The biggest thing I saw in the community was a lack of inspiration. And that many people were either disappointed, or felt abandoned. And I knew something had to change. So I set out to do something to change people’s perspectives, and at least try to inspire them to do better. I began a page on Facebook called the Treasure Valley Unity Project. Immediately, I began inviting every possible person I knew to take part in discussions, and wrote every single day to try to help inspire others to help things change.