OutBoise Magazine March 2015 | Page 36

36  |  OutBoise Magazine  | NEWS “It’s more than condoms. For me, it’s about bringing this topic OutBoise.com | Issue 5.2 | March 2015 demand for sexual health prod- you walk into the back door of ucts. the gym?’” [of sex] back to health. [Sex] is the one topic everyone sort In Caryn, you get a counselor- Early on, Caryn was able to of has issues with, you know? behind-a-cash-register of sorts, a Because we all carry this sexual script – everything from what mighty example of America’s en- the community that she and her dangered Main Street paradigm. shop would be uniquely suited we heard on the playground, She makes her living from the to fill. “I like to be a resource for and our parents, and all of these sales generated in the little shop, people. I’ve met and spoken things in society that create this personal belief system we all have. I like to try to empower people to know that they can edit their script; take out what doesn’t work and replace it with healthy information. Kinda analyze why they carry that around.” It’s clear within minutes of meeting her that one of the secrets to O-Zone’s longevity rests squarely on Caryn’s shoulders alone, even absent the universal of course, but her passion can’t be quantified through profits and balance sheets Even the products themselves take a backseat in her personal mission to return the topic of sex and sexuality back to its native environment of health, wellness, and happiness. “Society has made it naughty. It’s a healthy biological function, and I don’t care who you’re with, whether it’s solo-play, couples play or multi-play. It’s all natural and healthy!” Caryn stated. And while The O-Zone successfully strives to maintain its intimately safe and private atmosphere, Caryn refuses to identify a major unmet need in to a lot of experts in this industry and I learn everything I can. I understand my products, of course, but then people come in with other questions. I don’t want some who’s worked up the courage to come in and tell me their story for me to respond with, ‘I don’t know… but good luck with that!’ So, this all started when I’d get someone coming in who’d ask a question and I’d be like, I got nothin’. That would just tear me up. So, I started going to see experts [in the sexual health field] speak, and I’ve had a lot of experience where I could build up a better understanding. And enable what she says is society’s then this whole thing started to cycle of shame. “I had a person really evolve. I studied things like referred to me and after a lovely fear and guilt just to get a bet- conversation for about forty ter understanding of what a lot minutes, they turned around and of women were saying to me so said to me, ‘Why don’t you have I could start having a different a back door?’ I said ‘This is about conversation with them and offer your health. Do you walk into the them more in the way of informa- back door of a dentist? Would tion.