QUICKIE! The Quicker Picker Upper!
Has your sex life become boring and monotonous? Are you and your Beloved settled into the same ole tired sex routine? Is the once spontaneous, impulsive, passionate and animalistic sex life that you once had gone with the wind and so far out of view you can’t remember what it’s like to feel that tingling sensation in your body? If this sounds a lot like your relationship, then you’re definitely in need of a quicker picker upper, and what better way to get the momentum rolling again than with a quickie? A quickie is an excellent way to connect with your Beloved while boosting your libido and saying goodbye to the dreadful sex rut. If you’re ready to set fire to the flame of your sex life and ignite undeniable passion, following some of the suggestions below can help get you there in no time!
Build Anticipation
The thrill of a quickie can be an incredible turn-on and the levels of arousal built up throughout the day will make that ultimate release extremely satisfying for the both of you. Adrenaline pumping, heart pounding, excitement and anticipation definitely get you in the mood! Build anticipation throughout the day by sending a steamy sext message, email or call. Leave a pair of your sexiest undies in his brief case, glove box or visible location in the car with a note attached that states “I won’t be wearing these when you see me later.” The blood will definitely rush straight from his head to his even “bigger head” and you’ll both have something to look forward too!
Location, location, location! Select a location that is easy and accessible but not too public, after all public sex may be stimulating but it is illegal. Or if you’re feeling really daring revert back to your teenage years of the parked car! Add a new twist to cooking diner! Lather up in the shower together. Sweeten up dessert just a bit.
Lubrication is very important. Although women lubricate natural, it may take a little longer for the natural waters to flow. With quickie there’s not a lot of foreplay and you don’t have that time, for the vaginal to expand and lubricate. Keeping a water-based or silicone-based lubricant handy will do the trick. i.e. glove box, side of sofa, kitchen draw or in purse. Adding lubricant, especially those formulate for women, speeds up the female arousal process and makes it much easier for penetration.
Easy on, easy off! The outfit is definitely important, especially when you’re pressed for time. Be sure to wear something that offers easy access to the “goodies.” The less time spent on removing clothing, the more time there is for loving! Short skirts do the trick every time!
Positions. Any that allows easy, quick access! Standing positions are also fun and exciting!
Don’t be ashamed! We were created as sexual beings so the urge to have sex is natural! Don’t be ashamed to let it all hang out, literally and figuratively, with your Beloved. Unabashedly shower each other with kisses! Allow lust to guide you on an uncanny journey into eroticism.
Seize the Momen! Life rarely affords us the opportunity for perfect circumstances for sex, Sometimes an unorchestrated intense sex session is just what you need! Quickies aren’t about setting the mood, the perfect lighting, and position! It’s raw and intense! There will not always be perfect situation for having sex. Waiting until your both horny, not tired, the kids are good, the mood is right and you have all the energy in the world may not be realistic. Take the opportunity and seize the moment! Give in to the spontaneity of sex.
While a quickie can offer an immediate “fix” to jump starting your otherwise seemingly deaden sex life. A truly great sex life doesn’t just happen like in the movies! It takes work and deserves just as much effort as every other area of your life. At the end of the day, always remember that it’s essential for you and your Beloved to maintain that intimate, emotional, passionate, powerful and spiritual connection that sex can provide! Don’t allow your sex life to become a “maybe” or “if I get around to it!” Rip each other’s clothes off! Don’t’ worry about how your hair or body looks! Moan loudly! Breathe deeply! Hold each other tightly like your lives depend on it! But most of all live in the moment!
Carpe Diem!
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