Our House e-newsletter May 2012 | Page 7

Cover Story: 3 Alumni Profiles, pages 4 to 19 A glance at the list of Our House’s Board of Directors reveals many philanthropic members of the Little Rock community pitching in their collective ideas to make Our House an ever-improving social program, but one current member has the unique distinction of speaking from the other side of the Our House experience. Mary Shue represents a side of homelessness that many people overlook when they envision the affliction. Public consciousness often associates the homeless with broken childhood homes and early exposure to the more frightening fringes of society, but Mary describes herself as having been brought up “always supported and very much loved.” By high school, Mary had become impulsive and lashed out against this privilege. Perhaps overly aware of her safety net, Mary began a prolonged period of “abusing alcohol, drugs, and even people. I had a huge problem with my self-esteem and selfdiscipline, and I took advantage of the support I was given.” Ultimately, the time came when Mary’s parents had to make what she describes as “the toughest decision out of love” and cut off her financial support. Faced with the unfamiliar prospect of being on her own while raising her two boys, Michael and Morrison, Mary and her then-husband checked into Our House in March of 2008. Mary’s first memory of Our House was meeting case manager Justin Sanders, whose office was at the shelter entrance. Mary was immediately struck by Justin’s demeanor, which she describes as “very soft-spoken, concerned but not frantic, and comforting without coddling or babying.” continued on page 8 “ ”