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If utilities have been shut off, notify the utility company and the town
health officer or housing inspector (see “Safe and Decent Housing.”)
If the landlord has illegally locked the tenant out, contact an attorney or
Vermont Legal Aid to explore bringing an action for a restraining order and
other injunctive relief, damages, costs, and attorney’s fees. Of course, it is
always a good idea to talk first with the landlord about letting you back in
before going to court.
DATING, MARRIAGE, AND CHILDREN
Dating
Dating comes with legal rights and responsibilities, particularly when it
comes to decisions and behavior involving sex.
Here are three critical things to know:
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It is a crime to engage in a sexual act with a person without getting
their consent first.
Persons of any gender, sex, or sexual orientation may be the
victim or perpetrator of sexual assault and domestic abuse.
If something has happened to you, remember that it’s not your
fault and help is available.
Abuse in an Intimate Relationship
Violence and abuse may exist in any type of intimate relationship,
including dating. Abusive behaviors include physical violence, sexual
violence, harassment, stalking, and threats. Abusive actions can be in-
person or electronic. Dating abuse can occur with partners of any age,
sex, gender, or sexual orientation.
Some abusive behaviors are criminal, such as sexual assault, physical
assault, and stalking. Others are not, but the law can still help you. If you
feel that your personal safety is being threatened, call the police. If you
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