On the Coast – Families Issue 103 I December 19/January 20 | Page 16

How to eat healthier these Holidays BY CLARE MARCANGELO W hen thinking about the new year and what goals we may have, a healthier lifestyle may be top of the list for many of us. We all know that one of the biggest issues with implementing a new health strategy (I refuse to say diet) is fitting it in with an already busy life. How can we possibly add another change, another thing to plan and think about to our week when we are barely scraping by as it is? This is part of the reason we defer to everything “starting Monday” or even in the new year. 2020 has such a momentous ring to it, almost everybody has already begun to assign new plans and new beginnings to it. But we know the danger. How many of us actually stick to a new year’s resolution? This is why I believe we need to meet in the middle. We need time off, time to reflect, look inward and time to plan first in order for any new routine to work. So a holiday period would be perfect, right? So this year, rather than paying no mind to our poor bodies, and eating everything at every Christmas party table, regardless of whether we actually fancy it, why don’t we start eating mindfully in December? I know we have this idea that we need to wait, as we will be presented with far too much that doesn’t fit our idea of a diet, but once we throw out that old antiquated “diet” concept, we start to look at things differently. Rather than completely changing what we eat, assigning guilt and rules and a time frame that will expire, we can just aim to eat mindfully. Eating mindfully a concept that sounds terribly new age and complicated but in fact the way that we as humans used to eat before we let life get in the way. In essence, eating mindfully is just re-connecting our brains to the act of consuming food. 16 O N T H E C OA S T – FA M ILIES Rather than eating whatever we can reach whilst carrying out another task, we need to consider if we truly feel like eating that particular something, if it will serve our body well, and how much do we really need to eat of it. Then slowing down and enjoying it, appreciating the flavours, giving our bodies time to digest, and enjoying the company around us. This experience leads us to a feeling of gratitude and joy, rather than a pang of guilt or remorse, or of course, a stomach- ache. Another argument we put forward and view as a hurdle is that Christmas food is all too naughty. We can’t possibly try to eat well during this time. But is it? Christmas day itself would typically be filled with either gorgeously roasted meats, vegetables and sides or fresh seafood and salads. Granted, there may be dips and crackers and French cheeses, but now that we are eating mindfully, there’s nothing wrong with a little bit of snacking at a party, as long as we do it for positive reasons. So what changes could we add in over this period on top of beginning to move away from any negative relationship we may have food, or indeed ourselves? Why not make more meals from scratch? If we have more time off, and are feeling less stressed, now is the time to make things we really love. We could get in the habit of making double portions and freezing some, so even when life gets back to a hectic schedule we have options we feel good about. This has the knock on effect of not resorting to fast food when we are tired or working late. This way we can carry this new way of thinking right through our lives, So this year, rather than paying no mind to our poor bodies, and eating everything at every Christmas party table, regardless of whether we actually fancy it, why don’t we start eating mindfully in December? rather than seeing it as a quick fix or short term diet. If you find yourself reading this in January, don’t despair, a realistic goal is to not do what many of us do and “wait until school goes back” in February. That will be busy and full of everything else that school years bring. Start now, start today, and you will have one less thing to do in February. This also means we can start 2020 fresh and positive. By not building up the person we think we should become magically on January 1st, and starting our journey early, when we have time, and don’t feel pressure, we stand a chance of gently moving into that positive space we dream about. The one where we wake up energised, eat without guilt and love who we see when we look in the mirror. That is an amazing gift to give yourself this Christmas and one that you deserve. Clare Marcangelo is a local registered Nutritionist and former Early Childhood practitioner who specialises in children’s health. As a mum herself, she knows how hard it can be to make even the smallest of changes to a family diet.