On the Coast – Families Issue 100 I June/July 2019 | Page 27

flute of thin clay, curved and exquisite, like the end of a wind instrument, or a tiny listening device for the hard of hearing from yesteryear. Curving around its circumference, tiny ridges, where she’s gently sculpted each new part, each curve. This is the work of a master sculptor. The attention to detail isn’t just mechanical, we see a heart at work. Her drone precedes her as she returns, and she parks in the air beside us, waiting – we haven’t moved back fast enough, are blocking her way. She has every right to honk some kind of waspy horn at us, but seems patient. We step back respectfully. In her strong looking jaws is a perfect ball of mud. For this, in Australia, we know her kind as mud-daubers, and she flies in now to show us how it’s done, wandering over her pottery creation, checking different angles with eyes and feet. Finding the right spot, she deposits the ball, pats and licks it into place. There’s a lot of balls in the construction, that’s a lot of patience – searching out the right puddle, making a ball, flying back, sculpting. In England they’re called potters, these little people, their signature handiwork there being more like a tiny smooth vase. What she’s known by here in Darkinjung country I don’t know, but her cousins in Guinea, Africa, in a place sung as Kissidougou, are kinkindia. How long are we there? Long enough to see her bring green spiders, climb down that flutey entrance, and deposit them – we know – in a chamber inside. Stunned prey, ready for her hatching babies. We visit her work often. We know she’ll be finished for the year when she eats that entrance, recycling the clay into a sealed entrance. I watch her sometimes on my own; sometimes I watch my daughter watching her. Both occupy the same neighbourhood – wasp and daughter. This particular wasp, this particular girl. In a place full of such astonishing particulars. Richard Louv’s book, The Last Child in the Woods, made the essential case for kids and nature, which has since been shown and proven and known: kids need nature. Stressed? Go outside. Crying baby? Carry her outside. Sky and leaves and wind are as essential as a parent’s face. Motor skills, focus, calmness, creativity, ingenuity. It’s all there in the workshop, the funschool, outside the door. Here’s a thought: maybe nature needs kids, too. Maybe it’s a kind of symbiosis. Maybe when we, big kids and small, step out with no particular goal, with curiosity stitched to our feet like Peter Pan’s shadow, cavorting and cartwheeling, maybe we’re already in another country, a few steps and you’re in. Maybe we were heading on a long walk, my daughter and I, maybe we had meant to visit the chickens. But wonder is everywhere, and curiosity is like a goofy bloodhound. Where childhood and nature meet is the place where the magic doors are left open... Researchers are now telling us, too, that curiosity is the driver of creativity, of lateral thinking, of problem solving, of self confidence and resilience. Therapy so valuable none of us could afford it. A two step thing: outside; and wow (quiet or loud, it doesn’t matter). Magpie calls, spiderwebs, strange caterpillars, curious letterboxes and friendly neighbours. Strange frog songs. Stars. Meandering, exploring, scouting, dawdling, taking a gander, having a mosey, even the words spring up like vagabond verbs. Coddiwaddle. Who wouldn’t want to do that? Where childhood and nature meet is the place where the magic doors are left open, the fences unbuilt, the fantastical at the tip of the imagination; a spirit of curiosity and wonder, a spurning of boxes to be ticked, of expediency. These may be the very things we need for a new, kind and inventive future. And they’re right there where we are. Just saying. Peter Shepherd facilitates the Heart & Place creative writing courses on the Central Coast and beyond. He and his wife own The Book Forest in Niagara Park. JUNE/JULY – ISSUE 100 27