ON June 2016 | Page 16

Trust: It Starts With Communication As was the case with EDC, strong communication—whether between two organizations, two coworkers, a supervisor and an employee, etc.—is a critical stepping stone to forging trust. By being able to have open dialogue, present new concepts and explore different paths, those businesses or employees begin to form a trusted relationship. “To build trust, you have to possess the ability to communicate in a transparent and vulnerable way,” explains Hebert. “This means sometimes you have to have crucial and difficult conversations that enable us to break down walls, find commonalities, express desired intent and form unbreakable relationships. And when that communication is that pure and honest, those solid relationships form expediently.” So if communication is the backbone to forming trust, how can we communicate better? 1. Be Upfront About Your Intent Chances are you’ve been asked to do a trust fall a time or two in your life—or at least heard of the teambuilding exercise. Did it ever go like this? Check out the video: https://www.youtube. com/ watch?v=wPOgvzVOQig Too often, we assume that the other person understands our desired outcome and, in so doing, we take shortcuts with our communication or use vague words that lead to little clarity. In the video, the young girl’s intention was to catch her sister, but the directions were too vague resulting in a disastrous outcome, albeit a funny one.