oh!!! wo-(man-ia)
edition 3 may‘2014
Men vs Women
In the Mythological land of India not
even the goddesses were spared.
Goddesses were questioned about their
sanctity. Religions are male dominated
or so they seem to be. Maybe Language
was also a man’s priced possession.
Men are supposed to earn and Women
are merely for pleasure.
S*x was considered divine and was
expressed in various forms all over the
temples. Then it was made a taboo and
called a sin. Then it became a tool of
verbal abuse and derogation. Now it’s
become open yet closed, it’s used in
derogation but still Media makes
maximum money out of it. Be it porn, be
it exposure or be it just the cuss words.
While the etiquettes in the language
used in the past, show ‘bloke’ and ‘fat
head’ as words of abuses, the present
day world uses all sort of superlative
curses. These words not only abuse the
man, but also verbally rape, molest,
character-assassinate the female
members of the man’s family.
I have often wondered on the
invention of such abusive language,
why and how did a ‘bloke’ become a
‘ch****ya’ or ‘fu***r? What do these
words imply? I see no resemblance
between the words ‘bloke’ and the
latter which are now in trend.
What pleasure does a person seek or get
after abusing another person’s mother
or sister when he possibly has never
even met them? If this gives a level of
comfort, if this calms him down, then it
sure is a pitiful situation. The level of
sadism today has reached an all-time
high. If abusing someone’s family is the
only mean to calm one self, perhaps,
trends like yoga or just shutting one’s
big mouth isn’t working well enough.
I thought bi***h means a female dog,
when later I matured enough to realize it
meant a s**t as the B is open to all. I
wonder why would you call your friend a
S*** or a W***e, even out of love? Have
you seen how the teenagers address
each other? ‘Happy Birthday Bi*t*h’. That
sure is an expression out of love, so why
would a woman call another woman a
slut, or give a title to her for sleeping
with multiple partners? What is this
trend all about?
Leave aside men, people find new
means to abuse women, like it’s their
pleasure sport. But why do Girls abuse
Girls? I mean why on earth would one
‘mcbc’ people when one clearly knows it
means something wrong?
More the cusses bigger the hits. The sad
part is, the so-called ‘women oriented
movies’ show the women as ‘wannabe
men’, with traits like a warrior or a mafia
guy, cussing like a cheap, roadside
Mawali. These very movies make huge
money, by making women sit at a
pedestal, showing that they are indeed
uplifting women by making them utter
the cusses like men do. Instead they are
degrading them to the level of cheap
men who blatantly use languages which
is highly pejorative.
I just fail to understand. When a woman
abuses does she become a strong
woman? By demeaning her sisters? When
icons of Bollywood and Hollywood
degrade themselves and humanity, I
wonder why do we applaud and make
merry by pointing that ‘yes this movie
empowered women, by cursing other
women.....’
I wonder how many people know, that
‘ch***ya means earning a living of his
wife’s prostitution. How many sick
heads use it in every sentence and
actually curse the wife he might not
even know.
So to all the Gaali maaroing people
who know or don’t know what it
means, please ‘f*ck yourself’!
A JOURNEY CALLED- “LIFE”
When the sun shines bright,
When the moon brightens with the dim light,
When cool blowing wind calls for a smile,
When the dew upon the pines, decors the aisle,
You know you are blessed…
When the innocence of a child within, maintains
the crux of a story,
When hug of the father conquers the glory,
When the fight over the petty is reason for a
great start,
When a shot from the teacher and bulls eye on
the dart,
You know you are growing…
When the bike ride in storms is a route to
horizon,
When the issue of the coffee bill is a matter of
fun,
When the buzzes and calls satiate,
When the ‘books’ are a generic, for the term
‘hate’,
You know you rock…
When the irony strikes the consecutive door,
When the bewildered brain decides upon a core,
When the rule almanac gets filled by span,
When responsibility is met with by the body tan,
You know you are a fighter…
When priorities have to be defined and
parameters have to be set,
When the gut shatters but aims are to be met,
When the camaraderie grows and rela [ۜ