OH! Magazine - Australian Version March 2016 | Page 32

PROCRASTINATORS: DRAMA QUEENS OR DREAMERS? GREG SELLAR Greg Sellar explores the timeless art of procrastination! rocrastination can hurt careers, workplaces and most importantly, you. It’s a serious enough condition to scupper goals, dreams and aspirations because we choose to be a drama queen or dreamer regarding why take no action. Procrastination can also reap major health implications with serial procrastinators often suffering high stress levels, heart conditions and lower levels of wellbeing. P If you’re a procrastinator, you may have the ability to work hard, but telling you to buy a weekly planner is like telling someone with chronic depression to cheer up! The thing is, like any habit, you have the ability to get yourself out of it, just as you got yourself into it. The dictio nary defines procrastination as, ‘to put off doing something, especially out of habitual carelessness or laziness’. It’s interesting that procrastination is defined as a habit; because a habit is something created by us, which means we are free to ask ‘why’ and can successfully develop strategies to overcome it. True procrastination is a complicated failure of self-regulation: experts define it as the voluntary delay of some important task that we intend to do, despite knowing that we’ll suffer as a result. A poor concept of time definitely contributes to the problem, but an inability to manage emotions seems to be its very foundation. Procrastinators either put stuff off because they fool themselves into thinking they work better under pressure (they don’t); or they’re not following through because they’re suckered into ‘la la land’, which is a magical place where 32 MARCH 2016 ( OH! MAGAZINE ) everything will be great, but you don’t actually have to work hard to get there; instead, you just have to wait long enough and it will find you! If you’re suddenly coming to the realisation that perhaps you’re the reason you’re not where you thought you’d be, don’t fear! You’re among the 20 per cent who are self-confessed procrastinators, while the other 80 per cent will catch the procrastination bug from time to time. Procrastinators are often heard saying they need ‘the perfect conditions’ or a ‘Monday’ to begin, but the truth is, procrastination is a vicious cycle that affects bottom lines at work, and selfesteem in life. ‘I’ve found that while everybody may procrastinate, not everyone is a procrastinator,’ explains Joseph Ferrari, a professor of psychology at DePaul University and one of the world’s leading researchers on procrastination. He believes that people procrastinate for different reasons and as a result, he has identified three basic types of procrastinators: 1. Arousal types: These thrill-seeker types tend to wait until the last minute for the euphoric rush. 2. Avoiders: Often these types of procrastinators will be avoiding fear of failure or even fear of success; in either case they are very concerned with what others think of them, and they would rather have others think they lack effort than ability. 3. Decisional procrastinators: These folks cannot make a decision. In their mind, avoiding decision making absolves them of the responsibility for the outcome. So, what do you need to get yourself out of it? Sometimes, if the habit has been there long enough, it’ll require a deep processes to unblock the ‘why’ question. Essentially, in order to achieve positive behavioural change and greater success, new neural pathways need to be established so we can rewrite new habits over the old. If you need help with this process, or if you’d like any additional information about procrastination, then drop me a line (do it now!) via www.teamlifehack.com www.teamlifehack.com (Performance Coaching)