OH! Magazine - Australian Version February 2014 (Australian Version) | Page 23

MensLine. org.au ( Men’s Health ) MENSLINE AUSTRALIA: SUPPORTING OUR MEN It can be hard for blokes to find quality male-specific support. MensLine Australia offers these services to help Aussie males enhance their emotional health. n relationships, families, workplaces and communities across Australia, many of our men are doing it tough. This can sadly lead to family and relationship breakdown, mental health issues, and even suicide – the tenth leading cause of death in Australian men. MensLine Australia supports men to manage and overcome life’s tough times by providing 24/7 professional, accessible counselling services to men across the country. In the past year, MensLine Australia has supported over 40,000 men through their telephone, online and video counselling services – and this number is on the rise. Randal Newton-John, Director of Operations at On the Line (providers of MensLine Australia), explains that they have recently expanded the service to include online and video counselling, giving men even more options for how they access support. ‘Video counselling a llows men to speak face-to-face with one of our counsellors via Skype, giving them that personal connection with a professional counsellor, no matter where they are in the country. It’s great for men in rural or remote areas where there isn’t a local service available – they can have a counselling session for free, in the privacy of their own home.’ ‘With online counselling, men are able to hop online any evening and chat to a counsellor through our website. It may be a particularly good option for men who feel they aren’t quite ready to talk on the phone or face-to-face about what’s going on for them – it gives men an added sense of anonymity that can be really important,’ Randal says. While relationship problems make up I almost half of the main topics discussed on MensLine Australia, men also contact the service about issues such as loss and grief, loneliness, mental illness, and parenting concerns. ‘We specialise in family and relationship issues, but we’re here to support men with anything in their life they may be having a tough time with. If there’s a problem in our lives, chances are it will have some direct impact on our relationships. You might get a man who will get in touch about a problem with finances or work, and when you unpack it, we get to see the significant effect it’s having on their relationships – which can often be quite significant. We support men to find practical strategies to take charge of their problems, manage their emotions, and improve their relationships,’ explains Randal. ‘I just wanted to say thank you to MensLine Australia for all the support I’ve received from your counsellors in the last month. I’d been having a tough time in my relationship, and found it hard to cope with the arrival of my newborn baby. Now my relationship is on the mend and things have greatly improved. My wife and I are happier and are overcoming our issues. MensLine Australia saved my relationship. You guys provide an amazing service for men.’ – ­ ensLine Australia caller M If you or someone you know is having a tough time, let them know about MensLine Australia. Their phone line (1300 78 99 78) is available 24/7, or they can access online and video counselling through mensline.org.au ( OH! MAGAZINE ) ISSUE 6 23