ex before marriage used to be ancient taboo. Many people raised in various religious backgrounds found sex before marriage to be a sin, and were saving themselves for marriage as to remain pure to their partners. However, is this always a good choice?
Sex is a huge issue within marriages, and can often create a lot of tension when couples have gone without it. While no sex before marriage might cause tension for some, many couples look forward t that first time experience together.
Here are some reasons to have sex before marriage. First, sexual identity. Not havig sex before marriage can be a surprise and a way to hide real feelings one might have for the same sex, having not encountered a sexual experience before. Once these people are married, they further hide their true feelings. Second, there may be sexual issues like premature ejaculation or painful sex. These issues could cause great distress on a new marriage, thus figuring them out beforehand may be a better idea. The last reason sex before marriage might be a good idea is sexual chemistry. Sex is doable between everyone, but is it enjoyable and fun? Couples may marry and realize they have no sexual chemistry.
While there are some valid points for havin sex before marriage, couples are still waiting. Waiting for sex between eachother may seem like a huge surprise present each partner gets to unwrap on their wedding night. Personally, I feel this is way too much pressure, as if weddings are not pressure enough.
Couples who cohabitate are also finding it harder and more impossible to wait. Could you imagine living together and sleeping in seperate rooms, wait until that big wedding day and hiding and controling the sexual urge? Wow! Talk about self control!
Whether sex before marriage is for you or not, it s definitely a topic worth discovering!
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SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE?
Sex before marriage tends to be a touchy subject. Many couples are now waiting, despite immense pressure from other couples and society. Waiting to have sex until after marriage may be getting harder and harder, with more couples living together before marriage. Is sex before marriage a good or bad thing?