Not loving ourselves manifests in a constant search for
validation and external approval. As children we love
Just for a moment,
imagine how wonderful
it would be to not have
to carry the load of
your limiting beliefs. So
get down to business
and zap those limiting
beliefs. Understand
your behaviour patterns
and change them.
ourselves, but as adults so often this self-love is buried
very deeply in the subconscious. True empowerment
requires a subconscious change, an identity shift. And
this is not easy.
Recognise when you’re
spiralling down and
change it
Change your vibration. When you are stuck and feeling
‘low’ it may be hard to get inspired, so learn what takes
you from a negative to a positive state. Get out of that
stuck feeling, and generate new possibilities for yourself.
Transform totally
Speak up for yourself, and be authentic. Look at all areas
of your life – spirituality, relationships, health, finances,
intimate love and recreation. A holistic view and true,
sustainable personal growth means you are looking at
every aspect of your life and constantly striving for growth
and balance in mind, body, spirit and emotions.
Take action
Knowing and not doing is the same as not knowing. Learn
and apply. This is where you carve a vision for your life.
Do what it requires and focus on growing every day.
Communicate truthfully
with yourself
Make small changes, but do it constantly. Like the famous
slogan: (just) do it.
something or somebody that isn’t real. The worst is we
Understand and
manage your
environment
lie to ourselves too. And we build safe, seemingly secure
You can change negative thoughts and patterns, but they
comfort zone around these lies. What lie have you been
are like weeds. They became your beliefs in the first place
telling yourself?
so don’t allow them to grow back. Take an honest look at
Some of us have been wearing a mask for so long
that we forget it’s a mask, and we continue to act out
Get a grip on obstacles
your resources and support structures. Let go of energy
thieves (things, places and people). Know who to ask
Just for a moment, imagine how wonderful it would be
for help (and don’t be afraid to ask), and learn how to
to not have to carry the load of your limiting beliefs.
manage your resources, including your time.
So get down to business and zap those limiting beliefs.
So back to that warehouse – do you prefer to stumble
Understand your behaviour patterns and change them.
around in the dark, or let someone guide you to apply
If you need help changing them, get help. You’ve
these principles? O
recognised them as illusions; now learn to change your
patterns, thought processes and beliefs.
Shift your subconscious
This is about you, your self-worth, self-love and
self-esteem. Self-love does not equate to being ‘self-ish’.
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