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You know , when I decided to work on our relationship , I didn ’ t get to say , “ Oh Paul , you need to do this .” Or “ You need to listen to that . You need to understand how to not be overwhelmed . You ’ re ruining things for us .”
Imagine how well that would have gone over !
That was never going to work . I had to decide to be the one . I had to figure it out , to move us forward . And you know what ? It wasn ’ t easy . But I ’ m glad I had to do it . Because I got resourceful . I figured out every step that would build the relationship back up . And now , we ’ ve been able to map it out for you .
You ’ re here because you want to do it . You want to transform your relationship . Good for you ! But that means YOU have to do the work . The responsibility is yours . You don ’ t get to decide that your partner is going to do the work . You have to be the one to lead your family .

SO ... WHAT DO I DO INSTEAD ?

If you ’ re ready to step up and be the one to change your relationship for the better , then we have action steps for you :
1 . Notice where you ’ re telling yourself that the problem is your partner , not you .
2 . Stop waiting for someone else to make your relationship better .
3 . Start reminding yourself that you ’ re not in this for you . You ’ re doing this for “ Team Us .”
4 . Learn how to expand your skill set . Get the tools and strategies you need to lead your family in a better direction .
Now , we have a shortcut for that last step . You don ’ t have to figure it all out on your own . We ’ ve given you the tools and strategies you need and our 14-Day Boost is a great place to start .
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REFUSES to change !
Stacey Martino - Stacey has proven that it only takes ONE partner to transform a relationship … ANY relationship ! Stacey , and her husband Paul are on a mission to empower people to get the Unshakable Love and Unleashed Passion they want in their relationship … even if their partner
Stacey and Paul , are the founders of RelationshipDevelopment . org and creators of RelationshipU ®. Through their revolutionary Relationship Development ® methodology , they are changing the way relationship is done !
Today , through their strategic coaching , online programs and soldout live events , Stacey and Paul have helped save thousands of marriages around the world ( by working with only one spouse ).
Trained and certified by Tony Robbins , Stacey is a certified marriage educator , divorce preventionist and strategic interventionist . As a six-time best-selling author , Stacey is a sought-after relationship expert , and is the Relationship Expert for Aspire Magazine .
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