Occupational Therapy News OTNews March 2020 | Page 42

FEATURE DEMENTIA CARE Building compassionate communities Dementia specialists Rosemary Hurtley and Julia Pitkin describe how an initiative in Surrey is helping to build compassionate communities A 42 OTnews March 2020 life-changing course is being delivered into a local community to help people to confidently learn how to communicate with people living with dementia, with specialist person-centred empathy training. The iCARER course is about creating a compassionate neighbourhood for people living with dementia, to ensure they feel understood and included in the community, and was designed for residents and local carers of people living with dementia, businesses, churches, shop staff, health and social care staff, volunteers or friends interested in supporting someone with dementia. A local community can provide backup and a ‘safe’ environment when emotions may be running high. The initiative aims to help people to deal with ‘difficult public-facing moments’ that anyone could face when out-and-about in any community setting. It shows the wider public how to communicate with empathy and prevent or reduce the impact of challenging moments in public places, creating a compassionate community. There are four key messages within iCARER: • dementia is a physical and an emotional trauma: the person experiencing dementia cannot help what is happening to them; • acknowledge feelings: it’s not what you say, but how you make them feel that matters; • learn the person’s language: individuals experiencing dementia have a unique language, gestures and associations; and • demonstrate empathy: what a person needs most is empathy to restore confidence and make life better for everyone. Understanding the experience of people with dementia, who face difficult challenges in daily life while living in their local communities, can provide a series of challenges. Helping the general public to understand what is behind the behaviour and the need for people to demonstrate empathy is important to them and to the person with dementia, so we can communicate: ‘You are important to me’; ‘I am listening’; and ‘I want to understand’. This is part of a SMART Cranleigh initiative, in response to a local Public Health Community Needs Assessment in 2017. SMART (Shared Mission to build Active Relationships by working Together) is about connecting people for a compassionate community and a citizen-driven community initiative, bringing together people and