Nu Vibez and Roleplay Guide Magazine - February 2014 | Page 66

Stroker Strikes Back, Part 2 - p5

technology – my son can reconfigure our home network
and build his own computers.
So yes, they are aware of what it is I do, but it is no big deal
for them. They know what the web encompasses ... most
children today know what it's all about at 11 or 12 years old
anyway and my children are VERY well grounded when it
comes to promiscuity. Actually, my son just recently, at 16,
had his first kiss and was embarrassed to talk about it.
As a ma er of fact, my wife and I did a morning show
together where we sat on a panel with a writer who'd
wri en a book about online addic on, and another gal
who was a child psychologist. They asked us "some people
would say this is not a great example to be se ng for your
children" and oh boy did my wife go off telling them, "My
son is in the advanced placement curriculum, with a 4.9
GPA. He's a pianist, plays a saxophone in the marching
band and is in the jazz band. If we're doing something
wrong, please tell me what it is because I don't want to
change it!"
Those same ladies also asked her "how do you feel about
your husband having online affairs," to which my wife
replied, "he could do that just as easily in the real world
with his secretary or his accountant. What he does online
is a crea ve outlet for him that he finds s mula ng, and I
can tell you right now that it has posi vely changed our
love life considerably!" Then she just smiled and a loud
“awwwww” came from the audience. She's a great,
amazing woman. She's been in 3 of the documentaries
about me and has always been 100% suppor ve even
when I decided recently to return to SL.

incestuous. In reality, those labels in SL really have nothing
to do with RL interpreta on because it's merely a social
dynamic in SL. It infers a specific type of closeness or
in macy in that these are the people you cherish, that you
find most appealing and that you want to be with as much
as possible.
My first SL par tner and I had an open rela onship but we
learned very early on that humping pixels with everyone in
SL just adds to the drama. You can be the biggest porn star,
the biggest player, the biggest slut, but all it does is
complicate your SL because you become nothing more
than an object. Any me one of your sex partners logs on
they hit you right up expec ng you to drop everything and
come running to have sex a er which, they just log off. It is
at that point you begin to realize, you've become nothing
more than a sex toy. There are a lot of avatars that enjoy
that classifica on but it is a distrac on which makes it very
difficult, as a content creator, to focus.
My rela onship with Mami today is strictly monogamous.
Even though we are both in the adult industry, we choose
not to bring those complica ons into our rela onship. We
focus primarily on what it is that we want to do in SL and the
me we want to spend together. We have date nights, we
explore sims, we go shopping together. It is, for all intents
and purposes a marriage if you want to use the biological
defini on.
So, the playboy image, while it was probably deserved in
some aspects, it was never really based in reality or even
“SLality” as it were.

NVM: Through the years Stroker, you have been
celebrated as one of SL's biggest playboys and as I
understand it you find that ironic. Addi onally, you just
got married in SL. We're interested in why it's ironic to you
and ... how the heck is SL-married life trea ng you,
especially being that perceived playboy?

Well, there you have it. An in mate look behind the veil of
the monitor, into the life and mes of Stroker Serpen ne, a
businessman, a lover, a friend and a crea ve soul who
believes in live and let live while finding your niche in what
you love to do, so that you never have to work a day in your
life!

STROKER: I have had only two SL partners in all the years
I've been here and been partnered for almost the en re
me I've been on the pla orm. We have always been very
family oriented which has go en me in trouble actually.
With my first partner, who I was with for 7 years, I had 2 SL
daughters who were both adults in RL. We knew very
in mate details of their lives and we cherished them and
their privacy. But, because when you refer to someone as
your son, daughter or sister, people who are sexually ac ve
adults, society tends to correlate those SL rela onship
tles to their RL equivalents and labels them as

Thank you Stroker for sharing such amazing ps and tricks
and le ng us have this rare look into the personal side of
your life! Don't miss out on all the exci ng things planned
on Stroker's sim!

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