Nu Vibez and Roleplay Guide Magazine - February 2014 | Page 32

PTSD is not just for the Military! - p4 Although through my job, these were all things I understood very well and helped other people through, on a daily basis, I could not seem to help myself. I needed h e l p ! I n e e d e d a t ra u m a t ra i n e d professional who knew the right therapies to help me and my specific problem. I learned to be gentle and forgiving with myself as one does with a child when they learn to care for themselves for the first me. Through the help of my therapy, I also learned that it is not “me” who behaves so wretchedly, but the defender of the frightened child inside me that reacts overprotec vely to what it perceives a threat. The body is biochemically geared to protect when the monster called “fear” is unleashed. When seeking to understand and/or treat PTSD, it is important to note that presentday trauma educa on is s ll a very new 32 - Nu Vibez Magazine - February 2014 perspec ve and is in the explora on, discovery and educa onal stages. If you suffer from PTSD, please find a therapist who is Trauma trained. This will provide you with a proper diagnosis and the most effec ve tools to help you find your path back to health, happiness and security. One of the websites I prefer, for informa on about treatment of both adults and children, is presented by the Trauma Ins tute at h p://www.childtrauma.com. In the end, the most important thing I've learned through my own experience, however, is that no one can heal by themselves! You must find help, a guiding light at the end of a very dark tunnel and that there is posi vely NO shame what-soever in ge ng that help, only in hiding from the problem!