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On Par - Using Cognitive Behaviour Therapy to Improve Your Mental Game (Part Two -Thinking Errors) By Johnny Ong, NSRCC Member Identification and Correction of Thinking Errors C BT seeks to help clients develop self- awareness of how dysfunctional thinking and behaviours lead to emotional distress. It stresses the need to become aware of the biases in our thinking, which are referred to as `thinking errors’ or cognitive distortions. Unconsciously, we may have developed these patterns, making us `trapped’ in assessing certain situations. We may not interpret these accurately. Listed here are some common thinking errors as well as simple strategies for avoiding these. Thinking Error Explanation Example Alternative View All or Nothing Thinking Seeing things in black or white categories. This is extreme thinking, with nothing in between. “If I can’t do it perfectly, I’m a failure.” “I can’t expect to make a perfect shot all the time.” Catastrophizing Exaggerating the impact or significance of an event or situation; difficulty in appraising a situation realistically. It’s about blowing things out of proportion. “I have messed up my game. No way I can recover!” “Yes, seems like I’ve messed up. But I can still give it a fight.” Magnification/Minimization Ignoring the good things that are happening to you, focusing only on the negative details. “My putting is disastrous!” “Though the putting has been off the mark, all my other shots have been good.” ‘Should’ and `Must’ Statements Making rules about how you and others are to behave and getting upset when your rules are broken. “People should behave nicely on the golf course.” “I cannot expect everyone to behave in a certain way.” Emotional Reasoning Using our emotions as a guide to reflect the way things really are. The cure is to be aware that our emotions may not necessarily represent reality. “Things are going to be tricky; that explains why I am so anxious.” “Maybe I didn’t have enough sleep, that’s why I’m feeling anxious. I shouldn’t let emotions get the better of me.” Mind Reading You assume that you know what others are thinking, without actually considering that there could be other possibilities. “I’m sure they think I can’t reach the green.” “I will just play my game. I have no way of knowing what another person is thinking.” 14 RESORT VIEW