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On Par Using the cognitive principle, CBT proposes that events per se do not elicit feelings. Rather, it is the interpretation or meaning assigned to the event that causes the reactive feeling. It is not the out-of- bounds shot that has elicited the feelings of fear, anger and disappointment. Rather, it is how we have interpreted the psychological meaning of the shot that has caused the resultant emotions. Once we develop an awareness of how we assign interpretations to events, we begin to understand that different cognitions or thinking give rise to different emotions. There is always another perspective to interpreting events. The Behavioural Principle – What we do can affect how we think and feel Behaviour Thought Chooses a Not good enough to `attack’ the green `safe’ club Feeling Helpless Disappointed Frustrated In CBT, behaviours can have a strong impact on thoughts and emotions. In this example, a golfer avoids a direct approach of the green using a `safe’ club. This avoidance reinforces the belief that he does not have the ability to take a direct approach to the green. Consequently, he feels the resultant emotions. Research shows that avoidance behaviours tend to reinforce the feelings of fear and negative thoughts. We learn our behaviours through conditioning; repeated negative experiences at a particular hole will condition a golfer to adopt avoidance behaviours. CBT therefore advocates changing behaviours as an effective way to changing thoughts and emotions. Fear of Hole 11 No change to fear of Hole 11 Golfer does not learn coping strategies or challenge false beliefs Escape/Avoidance “Better play safe” The Interacting Principle of Thoughts, Feelings and Behaviour CBT proposes that thoughts, feelings, and behaviours interact with one another. Dysfunction in one element will impact the other elements. Just `feeling lousy’ for the day not only impacts your thinking about how the day will unfold, it will also impact how you could behave subsequently. To apply CBT, self-monitoring of your thoughts, feelings and behaviours during your next game would be a good starting point. Creating this self-awareness raises insights into your thinking and behavioural patterns, and to recognise unhelpful thinking and behavioural patterns. In the next instalment, we will explore the common thinking errors that contribute to dysfunctional thinking, feeling and behaving. Watch this space! Thoughts Behaviour Feelings RESORT VIEW 13