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Resiliency: Managing Stress During the Holidays Excerpt from Psychology Today According to the American Psychological Association, stress is on the rise in America, with nearly half of Americans reporting that stress is having a negative impact on their personal and professional lives. Although the holidays can be a time of joy, they often bring with them additional stressors. During the holidays we are often surrounded with images of people who are happy, in love and enjoying the whirlwind of their lives. In reality, however, this time of year can be difficult. When our lives don’t match the images we see around us or live up to our own ideals of family and friendship, it can be painful. And spreading all that good cheer, creating traditions and memories can be tiring and can exacerbate daily pressures and hassles. The following tips are designed to help you find relaxation during this often-emotional time and to improve how you are thinking or feeling about the moment and the season. 1.Find meaning in the season. Find or reconnect to a p ????????????????????)??????????????? ???????????????????)????????????????????????????????????)?????????????????????????????????)?????????????????????????????????)????????????(??????????????????????????????)???????????Q???????????????????)??????????????????????????????)????????????????????????????????)??????????????????????????????????)??????????????????? ?????????????)??????????????????????????????????)=??????????????????????????????)????????????????=??????????????)???????????????????????????????????)?????????????????????????????????????)??????????????????????????????????()?????????????????????????????)??????????????????????????????(?????????????????????????????????)??????????????????????????????????)??????????????????????????????????)?????????????????????????????)??????????????????????1??????????)?????????????????????????????????)??????????A??????????????????????)??????????????????????????????????)????????e???????????????????????????)????????????????????????????????)??????????????????????????????)???????????????????????????(??%?????e?????????????????????????)?????????????????????]????????)????????e???????????????????????????)?????????????????????????????)???????? ????????????????????????)???????????????????????????????e?)?????????I??????????????????????????)???????????????????????????????????)??????????????????????????????)???????????????????????(??M??????????????????????????????)??????????????????I??????????????)????????????????????????????????)??????????????I????????????)??????????????????????????????????(??Q?????????????????]????????e?)?????????????????????????????????)??????????????????????????????????)????????????Q????????????????????)??????????????????????????????????)??????M?????????????????????????)?????????????????????????????????)???????????????????????????????????)???????????????????????????????)???????I??????????????????????)??????????????????????????????)???????????????????????????????)?????????????????????????????????????)]???????e?????????????????????????)??????????????????????????????????????)?????((??M?????????????????%?????e????????)?????????????????????????????)??????????????????????????????????)?????????????????????????????????)?????????????????????=????????e????)?????????????????????????????????)??????????????????????????????)??????????????????????????Q??????)?????????????????????????????????????)???????????????????????????????(?Q???????????????1???????????????)?????????????????????????????)??????????????????????????????????)???????????????????????????????)???????????????????????????????)??????????????????????????????????)????????? ?????????????????(? ??????????????Q???????????????)?????????????????????????????U?????)????????????????????????????????)??????????????????????????????????)??????????????????????????????????)?????????????????????????????)?????????????????????????????????????)?????????5??????????????????)???????????????????????????????????)???????????????5??????????????)?????????????????????????????????)?????? ??????????????????????????)????????????????)Q????????????????????????????????)?????????????????????????????????????)??????????????????????????????????????)?????????????????????????????)9???????????????????????????????????)???? ??????????????????????????)?????????????????????????Q??????)???????????????????????????????)?????????????????????????????????????)??????????????????((0