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IMAGE: www.depositphotos.com ARTICLE / FIRST DAY OF SCHOOL Anxiety AND the First Day of School Children desperately need interaction with key adults to develop their little personalities, to develop language and communication skills E ntering a new environment filled with unfamiliar people can cause anxiety for children -- and their parents! Find out how to overcome the separation anxiety that accompanies a child’s first day of school. What You Can Do Before School Preparing your child for school before his first day can greatly reduce any separation anxiety your child may feel when you leave. Here are some ways to familiarize your child with his new environment: I ntroduce your child ahead of time to common school activities, such as drawing pictures or storytelling. V  isit your child’s classroom a few times before school starts to familiarize her with the space. H  ave your child meet his teacher. Don’t minimize the importance of easing your fears as well as your child’s. If you feel guilty or worried about leaving her at school, your child will probably sense that. The more calm and assured you are, the more confident your child will be.To prepare you for the upcoming tear-filled good-bye: Saying goodbye on that first day can be the hardest moment for parents and children PAGE 46 / NORTHERN HILLS / CHRISTMAS ISSUE 2014 A  sk your child’s teacher what her procedure is when children are crying for their parents. Make WWW.NORTHERNHILLS.CO.ZA