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THE NEXT STEP CONTINUED FROM PAGE 83 “We’re focusing on helping officers take care of themselves on the front lines with the trauma they deal with every day,” Burkert = = with = the stressors = without = continues.= “It’s about learning to =deal = best = of you, = = = = that = can benefit = it getting the and =it’s something a = cop all the way up to somebody who has been on the job rookie for 30 years.” = = = = = = = = = There is also= a substantive piece in =place= at the =Princeton = = House facility who = for= those = first = responders = = = are patients. Every morning, Dr. Bizzarro, a former Port Authority police officer, = = = = = = = Perlstein, a former EMT, Schneider, who served 30 years in the = = = = = = = = = = = = Westfield Police Department, and Burkert facilitate group ses= = = = = = sions for first responders. Though therapeutic in nature, the = = everything == = = = = from == = == with = = =to= worgroup= addresses dealing addiction = = = = = = = = = enforcement = = = officers = = might =have = about dealing = = = with ries law = = = = = = = = = = = issues,= going back = to work = = or pension== attorneys,= disciplinary = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = related= questions. = = = = = = = == = =is facilitated = = = Bizzarro = = affords = “The group by Dr. who everyone = = = = = = = = = = to speak = = about = their = concerns = = and = issues,” = = Burkthe opportunity = = “Dr. Bizzarro = = = provides = = counseling. = ert details. also individual Iris provides and support in a confidential setting for group = caring = = = = = = = = = = members and I = = to = = their = experiences, == = = = while = = Jim = share = =Schneider == = take the =peer We make them feel like they’re = == perspective. = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = not alone. They become relaxed and are willing to speak about their = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = own =personal issues. something = = = = There’s = = = to be said = for first responders = = = wanting = = = = able = with somebody = = =who has = =to be = =to =talk been there.” = = = = == = = It’s an extension of the Brother’s Keeper approach, which is intended to help all first responders understand when stress has become too overwhelming to deal with on your own and when it’s controlling your entire thought process. Preliminary signs of this, Burkert adds, would include sleep deprivation, problems at home and frustration with colleagues who don’t appear to have the “common sense and courage to perform certain duties.” “I’m seeing officers having difficulties working collectively, from those having a hard time fitting in with the new generation to the officers burning out with just 10-12 years on the job,” Burkert observes. “Also, based on what’s happening with the pension and benefits, there’s also financial difficulties and the stress of not being able to make it to the finish line.” Still another aspect of the Brother’s Keeper initiative is working with family members, especially spouses. The PART Training has apparently filtered down to many PBA members’ wives who have seen friends take advantage of it or have read about it in NJ Cops Magazine, according to Burkert. They are becoming more aware of the services available and are reaching out to their husbands’ partners, State Delegates or even members they know in other towns to assist with making the phone call to get treatment. Burkert said there is an opportunity to create a training for spouses of law enforcement officers and help them recognize the signs of somebody in trouble and what to do when they see them. “It’s becoming a trend,” Burkert submits. “Law enforcement officers’ wives are becoming more actively involved with helping their significant others by reaching out to people the wives would trust. And it’s not just wives. It’s older children and all family members. This is what being your Brother’s Keeper is all about.” d www.njcopsmagazine.com ■ FEBRUARY 2016 85