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CLOSING ARGUMENTS Law enforcement needs the camaraderie How important is camaraderie to the law enforcement profession? Can you really be a lone wolf in this profession? When you aspire to become a police officer, you don’t realize then that you are becoming a member of a family. When you begin the police academy, you are actually joining one of the largest families in the U.S. DR. JAMES Friendships develop as you endure the same rigorous FORD training as the other recruits. Over time, these friendships develop into close relationships because, during training, you share some personal and professional information with each other. Upon graduation, and after your field training has been concluded, you get assigned to a shift. The shift might be days, nights, or rotating. The duration could be one week, two weeks or more, and then switch back to another shift. Your shift will be either eight hours or, as many agencies now operate, 12 hours. There are many varieties of schedules such as the “Pitman Schedule,” the four-onfour-off schedule or a variation of the two. When I started, we worked a five-and-two, five-and-two and a five-and-one. When you are working that many hours and days in a row, you know that your brothers or sisters have your back, and you’ve become close. You often share in family celebrations such as birthdays, weddings, or other significant social events. You have all become brothers as if in a different type of fraternity. The relationship isn’t perfect, and it doesn’t have to be. We all have our idiosyncrasies, and we learn to appreciate and respect each other’s opinion. Sometimes, we go about doing the “job” differently, but the end result is the same. How often have you been on a call and your partner knows exactly what you’re going to do without uttering a word? That, my friends, is a true gift and a good partner. Police officers, by virtue of their profession, deal with some of the worst incidents the public never sees, including homicides, suicides, suspicious deaths, medical emergencies, sexual assaults and childand elder-abuse to name a few. There are many ways that police officers deal with the stresses of the job. But what about after your shift ends? Do you simply just go home and discuss the day’s events with your spouse, or keep it all inside? I remember one of my shifts began when a 14-year-old high school student committed suicide by strangulation and, just as my shift was about to end, I received a call of an unattended death. The unattended death resulted in an accidental shooting which occurred when a male in his mid-20’s mishandled a handgun. A majority of the investigations were concluded by 11 p.m. that day a long day from when my shift started at 8 a.m. We all know there are procedures to follow about whom to notify within the chain of command, and then there’s making the notifications to the county prosecutor’s office, not to mention dealing with the families of the loved ones who passed away. After the first incident involving the juvenile who took his own life, I could tell the traumatic event was taking its toll on the officers who first caught the call. We all agreed to go out to a local restaurant establishment after our shift to discuss the case. Our shift was supposed to end at 4 p.m., but I also caught the accidental death call. Shortly after 11, the officers from the day shift and I met at the designated restaurant and had a late dinner and beverages. The important thing is that we talked about the cases that occurred that day. All of us were married, and most of us had children, and it really affected us on how a teenager who had everything to live for could end his life. We knew we couldn’t go home and wake our spouses up to discuss what had happened; it was easier for us, as a group, to just meet up somewhere and discuss the events of the shift. What could we have done better? How was the call handled?