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HEALTH & WELLNESS Helping men cope with trauma According to the U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs, about six in every 10 men experience at least one shocking, frightening or dangerous event in their lives that results in post- traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). Those events can be the result of military service or other traumatic MICHAEL KEN incidents, such as sexual or physical BIZZARRO, BURKERT abuse, neglect, a serious accident or PHD, LCSW injury or bullying. While the signs of trauma sometimes appear immediately after the event, PTSD can lie dormant until overwhelming stress or another traumatic event later in life triggers symptoms. Symptoms of PTSD Often, men may realize they have a problem with substance use or anxiety but are unaware that these could be indicators of something more. Here are some symptoms of PTSD: • Repeated and disturbing unwanted thoughts and memories of the traumatic experience • Nightmares and disturbing dreams that often cause night terrors and sweats • Triggers or reminders of the event • Sudden onset of feeling like the experience is happening now, as if you are actually in the event • Purposeful avoidance of any thoughts, memories or feelings associated with the traumatic event • Avoiding people, places and things that may be a reminder of the traumatic experience • Unprovoked bouts of anger, irritability and aggressive behavior • Risk-taking behavior that can cause harm • Feeling jumpy, on edge and easily startled • Difficulty falling and/or staying asleep • Being super alert or on guard • Difficulty concentrating • Experiencing fear, horror, anger, guilt and shame • Loss of interest in pleasurable activities • Strong negative beliefs about yourself and the world • Difficulty experiencing positive emotions • Feeling emotionally disconnected from people It’s often not until the symptoms severely impact their daily functioning that men seek treatment. At Princeton House, our goal is to teach each patient the skills that will be most effective in helping him cope with his specific symptoms so that he can better manage daily life. Princeton House’s Men’s Trauma Program is a five-day a week, six-hour a day program that can step down to three hours a day for three days a week. Sometimes more intensive inpatient treatment is necessary. Men from every walk of life may have PTSD, although we do see many law enforcement officers, firefighters, EMTs and military personnel suffering from PTSD. Why does therapy help? For men in general, group therapy provides validation that their symptoms are real and they are not alone. They may recognize similar symptoms or concerns among their peers and make connections about their context. In a cohesive group setting it’s amazing how quickly things can feel normalized. The process facilitates what we call “a-ha” moments and enables men to feel safe enough to finally share their feelings or have an intimate conversation about their experiences. Princeton House’s programs are intensive. Men participate in group and individual therapy sessions including cognitive p