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CLOSING ARGUMENTS Pat King EOW: Nov. 20, 1997: A Stand-Up Guy Pat King was a sergeant in the Long Branch Police Department who was killed in the line of duty on Nov. 20, 1997. I list his rank only for reference purposes, as this article is not about the police officer, but the man. THOMAS The 20th anniversary of Pat’s death is nearing. On so many occa- SHEA sions when an officer is killed in the line of duty, the public views his or her pictures and learns the details of the murder. There are usually a few articles published about him or her, maybe one the following year, and then they slowly trickle away. This is human nature, albeit unfortunate. I didn’t know Pat that well, because in October 1997 I had just been hired. However, I would like to tell you two quick stories — one per- sonal and one told to me by a close friend — about the kind of guy that Pat was. Pat was our “training officer,” responsible for coordinating all activities for the nine of us recruits soon to be entering the police academy at the time. Pat’s younger brother Kevin was one of my academy mates. Pat labeled our group “the misfits,” a term we definitely deserved, as we took little seriously. On one occasion, Pat came into the briefing room where we were assembled and shocked all of us as he started screaming. Be- fore this particular incident, we had only known him to be a soft-spoken guy. He must have been taking a lot of heat from the brass within the police department about how we were all behaving. Needless to say, we didn’t test him again. A few weeks later, I was leaving the department after some in-service training, in preparation to start the academy. I saw Pat as I was walking towards my car. He said, “Shea, get over here!” I thought I was in trouble. At the time, I was wearing a flopp y, Guinness beer hat I had purchased over in Ireland, a place that I had recently visited. Pat said, “You sure you’re ready for the academy?” I said, “Absolutely.” He then looked at me in the eye and with a very serious face, stated, “Where did you get that hat?” I informed him that I recently bought it in Ireland. He said, “I want it.” I said, “Excuse me?” He said, “Do I stutter? I want your hat. If it weren’t for me, you wouldn’t have this job, because Joe [one of the other sergeants on the hiring board] didn’t want you. So, the least you can do is give me your [expletive] hat!” I started to take the hat off. I didn’t know it at the time, but this was Pat’s sense of humor, real- ly deadpan. He didn’t mean a word that he was saying. He then broke out into a big, goofy smile and said, “Hey Shea, I’m screwing with you. When you graduate from the academy, let’s go get a beer. There is this Irish club, called the Sons of Shille- lagh, in Belmar. You wanna grab a Guinness there sometime after you’re done?” I thought this was incredibly considerate, as I didn’t know anyone, being the only one of us who was not from Long Branch. I have since learned that this example is one of a million why everybody loved the guy so greatly. Even multiple individuals whom he had arrested paid their re- spects at his funeral. Bill Richards, a retired director of public safety from Long Branch, told the other story to me. He was Pat’s close friend for many years. Pat had agreed to help paint a room in a new house that Bill had just purchased. For some reason, Bill had to leave the job for an extended period of time. He came back hours later to learn that Pat had painted the entire house and wouldn’t accept a dime. I asked Bill, “He wouldn’t accept any money? Why?” Bill stated, “Because he was my friend.” I could probably tell you thousands of similar stories about Pat, if I simply interviewed all of his friends and colleagues in Long Branch. Many times, when people die, others tend to canonize them and edit out the less favorable aspects of their personal- ities. Like the rest of us, I am certain that Pat was not perfect; however, the cumulative sentiment is that he was extremely well respected, kind, loyal and authentic. In other words, he was a stand-up guy. d Thomas Shea retired from the Long Branch Police Department in 2017, where he was assigned to the Patrol Division, Investi- gations Bureau, Street Crimes Unit, Training and Internal Af- fairs. He is currently an Assistant Professor at Centenary Uni- versity. He is an active member of Retired Local 600. www.njcopsmagazine.com ■ OCTOBER 2017 85